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Do You Have to Use AI in Your UK Divorce?

Tucker Lieberman
Tucker Lieberman
Writer / Researcher
Custody X Change

UK solicitors, including those in family law firms, are using diverse AI tools in 2026. If you hire a solicitor, they’ll likely make some use of AI in your case. Exactly what use may be appropriate will vary depending on your situation. If you’re representing yourself, then it’s up to you what technology you use to organise your information and present your case to the court.

If you have legal representation

Family law involves the physical and emotional safety and overall well-being of adults and children. The tools that today we call “AI” can’t replace human sensitivity and expertise in this area. Legal experts do, however, use AI to enhance their research process and their judgments.

Many law firms use specialised AI systems that train on legal documents. These systems are called Retrieval Augmented Generation (RAG) because they retrieve specialised data to generate text. These systems are more accurate and effective than generic chatbots that train on whatever text they can scrape or are fed. RAG minimises what are called “hallucinations,” that is, words that do not correspond to reality.

Some AI tools are designed to give risk assessments — for example, about possible threats to a child’s well-being. These tools can be biased, insofar as there can be bias in data they reference or in how they are coded. Other tools are designed to help adults negotiate a financial compromise by predicting what they’ll settle for. This can speed up mediation or arbitration in family law.

A September 2024 survey conducted for Clio, a legal technology company, found that nearly all UK law firms were using AI in some way. Drafting documents was one of the most common uses. Most solicitors who were surveyed said they felt their use of AI did not make them more productive, improve their work quality, reduce their stress, or even save them time. They may have meant that they used it often and it wasn’t helpful, or that it was helpful but they didn’t yet use it often. Most reported that their firms intended to increase their use of AI.

One reason law firms use AI is that they know other firms are using it. The availability of AI resets expectations for what kind of legal representation is adequate. A solicitor is professionally obligated to represent their client competently; therefore, they may use AI especially if they believe it could help their client win or lower their client’s legal bills.

There is even an AI-only law firm, Garfield AI, the first of its kind in the UK. However, it doesn’t practice family law. It generates letters to recover small debts. If you seek help from a family law firm, there will be a human involved in the process.

 

If you’re handling your court case on your own

Simply because “you don’t know what you don’t know,” try to at least consult with a legal expert if at all possible. They can let you know if they anticipate you might need to pay attention to a certain topic or if you might encounter something complex. If you can’t afford the help you need, see if you qualify for legal aid. Be aware that a designated assistant called a McKenzie friend can come to court with you.

Divorces and cases for child arrangements are stressful. Reading and writing can be part of that stress, and sometimes people look for ways to smooth the path. A basic AI program can help you summarise a stack of documents, draft a letter, change your text to make it sound formal for court or simple enough for a child to understand, or translate between English and another language.

Even so, don’t rely on AI to do all your research and communication for you. Remember that AI can overlook important information, suggest wording that’s false or otherwise inadvisable for you to say, and miss the nuance of what others have said. There are many reasons not to make a parenting plan with AI — for example, you’d be better off using a template that has a history of being accepted in court. And you’ll want to make your own schedule carefully so you know exactly what parental responsibilities you’re promising, down to the hour.

Don’t ask a mainstream AI platform like ChatGPT for legal advice. Though it may be able to generally describe the law where you live, it could leave you with inaccurate impressions, as it has likely trained on information about the United States and other countries. Secondly, no AI program begins with any unique facts about your case, like the real reason you broke up with your ex or what homework help your child needs. Before it could even begin to summarise your situation, you’d have to provide a lot of private information, which you might not feel comfortable providing to an AI company. And even with that information, a basic AI text generator might not be able to help you protect yourself or strategise.

 

Choose how to organise and present your own information

You and your children deserve to put your best foot forward and make your strongest possible case in court. A solicitor, if you hire one, will have ideas about how to do this, and they’ll likely use AI in some way. If you’re representing yourself, you can make your own choices about how you’ll comply with court requirements.

Everyone who goes to court can use technology to stay organised. You’ll likely want to record your living expenses, save your text messages with your ex, and format a professional-looking document. There’s software for this, like Custody X Change and other co-parenting apps, that doesn’t involve “AI.”

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About Tucker Lieberman

Tucker Lieberman is a Writer / Researcher for Custody X Change. After a decade with an investment company focusing on saving for university, he now writes about co-parenting arrangements.

About Custody X Change: This powerful tool helps divorced and single parents create parenting plans, track their custody schedules, manage expenses and more. Since 2005, we’ve helped over 60,000 parents ensure the best possible future for their children.

Divorce Month: What Happens When High Net Worth Individuals (HNWIs) Split?
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Divorce Month: What Happens When High Net Worth Individuals Split?

Alex Pugh
Alex Pugh
Chartered Financial Planner
Saltus Partners LLP
  • High net worth individuals (HNWIs) are less likely to be divorced than the general population
  • But 1 in 5 admit they have ‘delayed’ a planned divorce due to the cost
  • One in 50 HNWIs even say the cost of divorce is their ‘single biggest worry’ – above their health, their children’s wellbeing and overall financial security
  • Wealthy women are more likely to delay divorce than wealthy men

January has long been dubbed ‘Divorce Month’, and new research from wealth management firm Saltus reveals a striking surge in online searches related to ending a marriage over the festive period.

After exploring Google search trends, Saltus found that searches for ‘I want a divorce’ and ‘cheap divorce’ rose dramatically between December and January. With numbers for both terms indexed from 100 at their peak on January 4th, having climbed there from 0 on December 1st and 87 and 75 respectively on Christmas Day.

Similarly, ‘DIY divorce’ reached its peak search interest on New Year’s Day, and ‘quickie divorce’ peaked on New Year’s Eve (1). These statistics highlight how the stress of the festive season – and the promise of a fresh start in the New Year – can act as a tipping point for many couples.

But when it comes to high net worth individuals (HNWIs), the decision to divorce can become a lot more complicated – and data suggest they could be putting it off as a result.

HNWIs are five times less likely to be divorced.

According to ONS data, 7.1% of the general population are divorced – rising to 11% amongst over 45s (the average age for divorce). But amongst high net worth individuals this figure drops to just 1.3%, and 5% of over 45s.

The Saltus Wealth Index surveyed 2,000 people with assets of more than £250,000, and one in five married respondents said that they had delayed getting divorced due to the due to the cost of living crisis, while more than one in four (28%) say their family members have.

Amongst respondents who are already divorced, 27% say they ended their marriage later than planned as a direct result of the cost of living crisis, while 34% say at least one of their adult family members delayed their divorce for the same reason.

Furthermore, more than 1 in 50 HNWIs admit that their single biggest worry is ‘being able to afford a divorce’ – above their health, their children’s wellbeing and overall financial security.
Alex Pugh, Chartered Financial Planner at Saltus said: “High profile individuals face particularly complex challenges during divorce proceedings. With significant wealth at stake, there is an increased risk of hidden or concealed assets, as well as issues over what should and should not be included in a settlement, making it difficult to determine who is entitled to what, and creating what can be a very messy – and expensive – process.

“For example, around seven in ten of divorcing couples overlook sharing pensions, which, along with property, tend to be the most valuable asset. And it is often the woman that loses out.
“This is because in many cases the husband was the major breadwinner and has built up significantly more pension savings than the wife who has taken breaks and a cut in earnings to take on more family caring responsibilities. This is especially the case if the pension in question is a defined benefit scheme as their value within divorce proceedings is not just calculated on monetary value.

The data also suggest that while, overall, women are more likely to file for divorce than men – according to the ONS almost two thirds of petitions for divorce come from women. But amongst wealthy couples, women are more likely to delay divorce than men, with 21% saying they have held off initiating proceedings vs 19% of men.

“It is critically important to understand the emotional and financial challenges that accompany divorce, particularly for those with significant wealth. Over the years we have carried out countless pension sharing orders and are regularly called upon to help clients prepare for a fresh start. Getting the right advice on everything from the valuation of assets for settlement, understanding the tax implications of divorce or reviewing your investments and protection post-divorce is incredibly important to ensure the best possible, and fairest, outcome through a difficult period.”

Further information

About Saltus Wealth Index Report

  • The sixth iteration of the Saltus Wealth Index Report is released today (24th September 2024).
  • The research sampled 2,000 UK respondents (aged 18+) who have £250k+ of investable assets.
  • Research was conducted by Censuswide (Censuswide abides by and employs members of the Market Research Society, based on the ESOMAR principles).
  • This research was carried out online during August 2024.

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About Alex Pugh

Alex has experience partnering with high net worth individuals, business owners and families interested in intergenerational planning. Seeking first to understand her clients’ aspirations to gain a deep understanding of what they hope to achieve, she designs tailored plans with her clients’ end goals at the forefront.

With expertise in cash flow modelling, Alex is adept at providing specialised advice to ensure her clients achieve their long term financial aims.

Her knowledge of investments, pensions, estate planning, and protection means she is well-versed in adapting plans over the course of her clients’ lives.

Alex has over a decade of experience working in finance, working for top tier institutions JP Morgan and HSBC. She has achieved the gold standard Chartered status and has completed the Certificate in Financial Wellbeing.

REVEALED: The UK Cities Googling Most About Divorce in 2024
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REVEALED: The UK Cities Googling Most About Divorce in 2024

Lauren Laverick
Lauren Laverick
Solicitor
Beecham Peacock Solicitors

In 2022, it was revealed that Birkenhead was the #1 area searching for divorce in the UK from September 2019 to September 2020 – a unique period when marital bonds were challenged throughout the COVID lockdown.

The findings were collated using Google keyword data, finding the area in the UK where the highest number of people are searching for divorce information. Topping the list was the likes of Birkenhead, Birmingham and Bradford.

Fast-forward two years, the UK’s social and political landscape is once again almost unrecognisable: two new Prime Ministers, social tensions over foreign wars, eco-anxiety, recession and a ravaging cost-of-living crisis have all contributed to the national stress.

With one in five of us experiencing stress every single day, we wanted to see how this stress was yet again impacting the UK’s love life – returning to the Newcastle family law specialists at Beecham Peacock Solicitors for their analysis of the latest findings from July 2023 to June 2024.

Key findings:

  • Plymouth is now the UK’s #1 hotspot for divorce.
  • Birkenhead has been demoted, now sitting at the third-highest divorce hotspot.
  • January is the most common month that people search for a divorce.
  • Kingston-Upon-Hull has the highest year-on-year increase for divorce searches.

The heartbreak cities:

Using data from Google’s Keyword Planner tool, Beecham Peacock has identified how many people are searching for divorce in each city, using this data to find the cities with the leading number of searches every month for “divorce” per 100,000 people.

  1. Plymouth – 27.77 monthly searches per 100,000 people.
  2. Portsmouth – 26.89 monthly searches per 100,000 people.
  3. Birkenhead – 22.87 monthly searches per 100,000 people.
  4. Leeds – 22.06 monthly searches per 100,000 people
  5. Bradford – 21.11 monthly searches per 100,000 people.
  6. Bristol – 16.25 monthly searches per 100,000 people.
  7. Leicester – 15.4 monthly searches per 100,000 people
  8. Belfast – 13.11 monthly searches per 100,000 people.
  9. Hull – 13.02 monthly searches per 100,000 people.
  10. Birmingham – 11.53 monthly searches per 100,000 people.
  11. London – 11.16 monthly searches per 100,000 people.
  12. Manchester – 9.84 monthly searches per 100,000 people.
  13. Liverpool – 8.09 monthly searches per 100,000 people.
  14. Glasgow – 7.14 monthly searches per 100,000 people
  15. Edinburgh – 3.26 monthly searches per 100,000 people
UK Hotspots for Divorce
Graphic supplied by Beecham Peacock Solicitors

The findings:

Birkenhead will be happy to hear that it has been dethroned as the #1 UK hotspot for divorce, being succeeded by Plymouth at #1 and Portsmouth at #2 with 27.77 searches per 100k people and 26.89 searches per 100k respectively.

Plymouth saw the largest increase in the top three, with monthly searches for ‘divorce’ increasing by 143% year-on-year since 2023. Searches in Birkenhead saw a notable 75% increase, after recovering slightly in 2023 with 16.33 searches per 100,000 people. Searches in Portsmouth increased slightly since the previous year also, rising by 22%.

Hull, UK
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Shock results: Hull & the New Year

Most shocking of all in the data provided by Beecham Peacock is the year-on-year increase of Kingston-Upon-Hull and the average month in which divorce is searched across all cities.

Hull saw the largest year-on-year increase in monthly searches for ‘divorce’ out of all of the cities analysed. Here, searches rose by 350% since 2023 – that’s over double the increase of Portsmouth, which saw the second-highest year-on-year increase of 143%.

Additionally, Beecham Peacock has found that January is the most common month in which we see an increase in searches for divorce.

The areas which saw the highest search increases in January were more likely to have higher total searches per 100,000 people, suggesting that January is the breaking point for most considering a divorce.

A closer look at the data reveals a pattern of searches rising the most in months outside of spring and summer. Searches peak in months starting from August (the end of summer) through to January (the peak of winter), with the extreme of the peak rising the further into winter we get.

Google Search Volumes for Divorce
Graphic supplied by Beecham Peacock Solicitors

Do more couples separate in winter?

An influential study by Professor Julie Brines in 2016 found that divorce is in fact seasonal, with most breakups happening in winter and official divorce filings happening a couple of months later into the new year.

This is due to numerous factors, including the pressure of the holiday season to be happy and family-oriented, leading couples to a realisation that their relationships have fallen flat.

This theory lines up with Beecham Peacock’s findings, especially in relation to the peak of ‘divorce’ Google searches in January – immediately after the festive holidays. It seems January acts as the investigation stage into filing for divorce, with the official separation taking place in the coming months.

“Divorce can be a daunting and incredibly stressful life change,” says Lauren Laverick, divorce solicitor at Beecham Peacock. “We understand taking that first step takes a lot of courage, and the quicker a divorce can be processed, the sooner couples can begin to heal amicably. A considerate and understanding approach to divorce proceedings is paramount, so we hope the people of Plymouth are confident that they are being represented with their best interests at heart.”

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About Beecham Peacock

Established in 1953, Beecham Peacock is one of the North East’s leading law firms with a wealth of experience in a myriad of different legal fields. Its team of expert solicitors includes specialists in wills, trusts and probate, personal injury, family law and employment law. The firm also offers a wide range of other legal services.