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Children and Divorce – What You Need to Know about Sole Residency (Full Custody)

Haroop Ahluwalia
Divorce Solicitor
Cordell & Cordell

Making child arrangements can be an extremely difficult issue to tackle when two people are experiencing the ordeal of a separation or divorce.

But when it comes to filing for sole residency, do you know the absolute essentials to help make this critical decision?

We have compiled the essential need-to-knows to assist parents going through a divorce in making that all-important decision about sole residency.

Residency: The Legal Landscape

When it comes to arrangements about children, the preference of both the parents and the courts is often to agree on joint legal residency. However, if an agreement cannot be made amicably between parents, the court may be involved, which will lead to a decision being made on the parents’ behalf.

Child Arrangements

If parents are unable to agree on where the child/children will live and when they’ll spend time with each parent, the next step will be to go through the courts.

A family mediator can also be instrumental in helping a decision and agreement to be made.

What is Sole Residency?

If you consider filing for sole residency, it is crucial to know the different types and what is involved.

Types of Sole Residency

There are two types of sole residency:

  • Sole legal residency –This involves one parent holding complete decision-making authority for the child.
  • Sole physical residency – This involves the child living with one parent, with the other parent receiving visitation rights.

Court Orders

Filing for sole residency will involve filling out the relevant court order.

The type of court order parents will need depends on the exact details of what they have been unable to agree on, and numerous court orders can be applied for at once.

The types of court orders concerning residency arrangements were previously known as ‘residence orders’ and ‘contact orders.’

These have since been replaced by a ‘child arrangements order,’ which decides the following:

  • Where your child will live
  • When your child will spend time with each parent
  • When and what other types of contact will take place, such as phone calls

If parents already have an existing residence or contact order in place, there is no requirement to reapply with a new child arrangements order.

Applying for a Court Order

There are a number of steps to take to apply for a court order:

  • Fill in a C100 court form. Within this form there must be evidence that you have attended a meeting about mediation first. This is exempt in certain circumstances, such as in domestic abuse cases.
  • Send the form to the nearest court dealing with child cases, together with the fee of £215.
  • If you are on a low income or receive benefits, you may be eligible to receive financial help with the fees.

The Court’s Decision

Once your child arrangements order has been received by the court, a directions hearing will be arranged by the court for both parents to attend.

A family court adviser from the Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service (Cafcass) is likely to be present at the hearing.

If an agreement cannot be made during the first court hearing, this will lead to the judge or magistrate setting a timetable outlining what will happen next.

It is important to remember that the court will make the child’s welfare its absolute first priority, and this will be the deciding factor in determining who will receive sole residency of your child/children.

About Haroop

Haroop Ahluwalia is a London divorce solicitor at Cordell & Cordell.

He has significant experience in both property and family law. The opportunity to work closely with clients, guide them through each step of the divorce process and help level the playing field in the UK divorce courts is why he chose to practise family law exclusively.

 

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Children and Divorce – Child Arrangement Programme

Austin Chessell www.thedivorcemagazine.co.uk
Austin Chessell
Family Mediator and
PPC

Another interview with Austin Chessell of Feltons Solicitors where we talk about the new Child Arrangements Programme or “CAP”.

Are you going through a divorce and are struggling to come to a suitable parenting plan that will suit you and your children?

If you so then this interview is definitely for you.

Reaching a good and child-friendly co-parenting plan can be hard but with the Child Arrangement Programme, it’s possible to cope with divorce in a way that will work for you and the children and therefore lowering any negative effects of divorce on children of divorce.

In these interviews, Austin answers questions such as:

In Part 1 of The Child Arrangement Programme:

– What is a Child Arrangement Programme or “CAP”?

– Getting divorced, do we need to apply for a Child Arrangement Programme?

– Who can help me arrange for a Child Arrangement Programme?

– Can I represent myself in court?

– Do we need to go through family mediation or attend a MIAM?

In Part 2 of The Child Arrangement Programme:

– Once the Child Arrangement Programme procedure is underway how many hearing are there? or When will it all be resolved?– Who or what is CAFCASS?

– How can CAFCASS help?

– Do Children have a say in the Child Arrangement Programme?

– I want my time with my child to be reviewed will this happen?

– What is a fact finding hearing?

– What if I get an order and the agreement is not respected by the other parent is there anything I can do?

And much more.

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Parental Alienation with Yasmin Alibhai-Brown

If you have ever wondered what the effects are on fathers who lose contact with their children after divorce or separation then listen to this 15 min recording of Louis De Bernieres’ conversation with Yasmin Alibhai-Brown on the one-to-one show on BBC radio 4

www.bbc.co.uk/programmes – 15 mins

I (Soila) have met parents who completely believe that their children are better off without the other parent.  Are you that parent?  It would be great to hear from you as it would to hear from parents who have lost contact with their children.

Unfortunately it’s a very common problem and sharing your views and stories might indeed help someone else who is living through parental alienation.

  • If you’re going through a divorce at the moment, you might want to listen particularly to the part on family mediation
  • You may also want to listen to this very informative interview with Deesha Philyaw and Michael D. Thomas on co-parenting and how to have a successful and workable co-parenting plan.
  • And finally read this blog on Children Need Both Parents.

“Yasmin divorced over twenty years ago, and – although happily re-married – often contemplates the fall-out of divorce, and the resulting emotional ripples which inevitably reach further than the separating couple. 

Last week Yasmin spoke to a grandmother who hasn’t seen her granddaughter for four years, and this week she speaks to the author Louis de Bernieres. He talks from the position he holds as patron of the charity Families Need Fathers, but also from the very personal point of view of a father of two children, who has now separated from their mother.”  Taken from BBC Radio 4

Families Need Fathers Charity

“Parental divorce or separation should not mean that children lose the love and care of one of their parents.

Families Need Fathers seeks to obtain, for the children, the best possible blend of both parents in the lives of children; enough for the children to realise that both parents are fully involved in their lives. Legally, parents should be of equal status.”  Taken from Families Need Fathers and you can find out more by clicking here – http://www.fnf.org.uk/about-us

About Soila

Soila is the founder of The Divorce Magazine and creator of the online course – Helping Children Cope with Divorce

She is known for taking away the pain of trauma and loss in children, adolescents and their families and is the creator of the 4.6 rated online course Parenting after Separation.

Soila holds an MSc in Psychoanalytic Developmental Psychology from UCL (University College London), is an accredited Positive Parenting Program (Triple P) practitioner and a trained Family Mediator.

Soila is Graduate Member of the British Psychological Society.

You can contact her on 07850 85 60 66 or via email soila@thedivorcemagazine.co.uk