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Cohabiting Partners  -  Kingsley Napley Comment on WEC Letter
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Cohabiting Partners  –  Kingsley Napley Comment on WEC Letter

Abby Buckland
Abby Buckland
Family and Divorce
Partner
Kingsley Napley

Commenting on the Women and Equalities Committee’s letter to Family Justice Minister Lord BellamyAbby Buckland, Family Law partner at Kingsley Napley LLP says:

“Given the trend of declining rates of marriage, an increase in the age of those getting married and a rise in cohabitation, the WEC is absolutely right to be urging the Government to do more to address the lack of protection for cohabitees and not to put this issue to the back of the queue.

“A review of the Matrimonial Causes Act and how finances are divided between separating spouses on divorce is, the Government has said, to take priority but if marriage is increasingly out of fashion, then this is not providing solutions to those families with arguably the greatest need.

“Cohabitants have limited rights on relationship breakdown resulting in stark and often unfair outcomes for the individuals affected and their children, particularly when compared to the protection which would have been afforded to them had they been married. The Government has repeatedly failed to extend legal protection in this area but there is overwhelming evidence to suggest this should be a priority.

“The WEC is right to highlight that progression is being side-lined with no sense of urgency or resolve.”

About Abby Buckland

Abby is a Partner in the Family and Divorce team in Kingsley Napley who undertakes matters involving all aspects of private family law and in particular complex financial issues and private children cases.

Mills v Mills spousal maintenance decision

Kingsley Napley Comment on Mills v Mills Spousal Maintenance Decision

Stacey Nevin
Stacey Nevin
Associate in the Family & Divorce Law team at Kingsley Napley LLP.

Spousal maintenance is a thorny topic.

Traditionally English law has recognised the concept of maintenance for life on divorce, with the breadwinner (male or female) expected to support the financially weaker party.

Recently however there have been a slew of cases suggesting this principle is falling out of favour and in practice there are often moves by the financially stronger party to achieve a clean break divorce if possible, or to limit the scope of maintenance payments rather than sign-up to open ended awards.

That is why all eyes were on the conclusion of the long running Mills v Mills saga this week which went all the way to the Supreme Court.

The Supreme Court had been asked to consider whether the court was entitled to decline to increase Mrs Mills’ maintenance payments to fund payment of all or some of her rent when her housing needs had been catered for in the original divorce proceedings.

Mr and Mrs Mills separated in 2000 after 13 years of marriage, divorcing in 2002.  At the time of their divorce it was agreed that their now adult son would continue to make his home with Mrs Mills.

The parties reached agreement on the financial claims between them, with Mrs Mills taking a total of £230,000 of the net equity of the family home (approximately 91%) and receiving maintenance payments of £13,200 per year.  The husband kept the parties’ shares in their surveying companies and £23,000 of cash from the sale of the family home.

Mrs Mills’ maintenance award did not include provision for rent, as it was anticipated she would use her capital award to purchase a mortgage free property.

Even though it was accepted by both that she had no ability to raise a mortgage, nevertheless later in 2002 Mrs Mills purchased a house for £345,000, raising the balance on mortgage.

What then followed was a series of property transactions where Mrs Mills “committed herself to borrowings which were too high”.  

These are neatly summarised in the Supreme Court’s judgment, but ultimately the result was that by the time Mr Mills applied to court to stop maintenance payments in 2015, Mrs Mills was living in rental accommodation, had no capital and debts totalling £42,000.

Mrs Mills cross applied, seeking an increase to her maintenance award, as she now had rental costs which had not been factored into the original award.

The decision of the first court saw the order remain at the rate of £13,200 per year with both parties’ applications failing. Both appealed, and in the Court of Appeal, Mrs Mills successfully argued to increase her maintenance to £17,292 per year, which included her shortfall in her rental payments.

Whilst Mr Mills was not permitted to appeal the decision that he should continue paying maintenance, he was given permission to appeal the decision to increase the maintenance award to cover the shortfall.  The Supreme Court allowed his appeal and effectively restored the maintenance to the 2002 amount.

The judgment makes clear that Mrs Mills’ housing needs had been catered for within the original capital award given to her in 2002 and that Mr Mills should not be expected to bear the consequences of his ex-wife’s poor financial decisions over the last 16 years.

Whilst these cases remain fact specific and the Mills v Mills decision does not totally bar future claims being made due to the court’s wide discretion, it does give us a strong indication of the law in this area.

Spouses seeking to increase their maintenance award to meet a need that was already catered for with a capital award face a tough test. Even though it was accepted that Mr Mills could afford to pay at the higher level and that Mrs Mills had a greater need, it was not considered fair that he should meet this greater need.

The question of fairness will play a key role in future cases looking at this point.

What paying parties may find disappointing about this case is that Mr Mills remains obliged to pay his ex-wife maintenance, even at the original level.  Mr Mills has now been paying maintenance for 16 years, three years longer than the parties were married and living together.

The question of how long maintenance should be paid remains unanswered and fact specific.  No doubt, the Mills v Mills case will be an incentive to those wanting to push for further change in the area of spousal maintenance. Many argue that a lifelong maintenance payment obligation is outdated and patriarchal and that the law should support financial independence between divorced couples.

For the moment the message is clear: whilst Mrs Mills is not required to move to full financial independence from her ex-husband, she must now meet her increased housing costs herself and cannot look to her ex-husband to meet her needs generated by the choices she has made; responsibility for these choices rests solely with her.

About Stacey Nevin

Stacey Nevin, an associate in the Family & Divorce Law team at Kingsley Napley LLP. She works on cases involving all aspects of family law including maintenance cases, private children cases and relocation cases.

Potanina-v-Potanin: Divorce Experts Share their Views
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Potanina-v-Potanin: Divorce Experts Share their Views

Sean Hilton
Sean Hilton
Sital Fontenelle
Sital Fontenelle
Peter Burgess
Peter Burgess

The recent Court of Appeal ruling in London has reignited global attention on one of the most high-value divorce cases in history. Natalia Potanina, ex-wife of Russian billionaire Vladimir Potanin, has won the right to pursue a multi-billion-dollar claim for 50% of his stake in Norilsk Nickel, along with dividends and a luxury Moscow property.

Having previously received less than 1% of marital assets following their 2014 divorce, Potanina’s successful appeal marks a significant shift in what has already become a closely watched case.

To unpack the potential implications of this ruling, we asked leading experts Peter Burgess, Sital Fontenelle and Sean Hilton for their views.

Peter Burgess, partner at Burgess Mee, says:

“Today’s ruling further cements London’s position as the divorce capital of the world. Mrs Potanina’s $6bn claim has been thrown a lifeline, by the Court of Appeal allowing the claim to proceed. For UHNW individuals who have been badly served abroad, this judgment will be very welcome. Aspiring “divorce tourists” may appreciate the opportunity to demonstrate connection to this country at the substantive hearing, rather than at an earlier stage. However, this particular long-running high-value dispute may still have some way to go as it remains open to Mr Potanin to seek a further appeal to the Supreme Court.”

Sital Fontenelle, Head of the Family Law team at Kingsley Napley LLP, comments:

All lawyers to international HNWs have been watching this case, given it concerns the limits to divorce tourism and is the latest determined example of a wife testing England’s reputation for being a fair and generous forum.

The Court of Appeal has today granted Natalia Potanina’s application for leave to bring a Part III claim meaning she is permitted to bring a claim for financial remedies in this jurisdiction following a divorce and financial settlement decided after a long marriage in Russia.   

The Court of Appeal had little difficulty in concluding that Mrs Potanina has solid grounds to bring her application on the basis of her connections to this country and the ‘limited’ view of her husband’s assets that was taken in Russia. The Court even went so far as to note that it could be argued the size of her award in Russia meant her reasonable needs could not be met. It also observed she had only received a fraction of what she might have received in this country.   

This will no doubt be disappointing to her husband and will dismay those who feel our divorce courts should be dealing with more local and needy cases. As the Court of Appeal notes, this case has been running for nearly 7 years and has consumed substantial resources of the court.

Although today’s decision is, of course, fact specific, the key point is that the door is still open; it reinforces our reputation for being divorce capital of the world and importantly there was no narrowing of the test for other potential claimants who have the appetite to bring litigation here.  We will therefore remain an attractive jurisdiction for divorce cases. 

However, it is unlikely to be the end of the matter since Mr Potanin may still have the appetite to appeal further and request the Supreme Court considers the substance of this case (their original review was procedural).  

This is a blockbuster case in financial terms – with considerable £s at stake in the billions rather than millions – so we can expect it will continue to be hard fought for several years to come.”

Sean Hilton, Family Partner, Stevens & Bolton, commented:

“Today’s Court of Appeal decision in the Potanin case marks a significant moment for international divorce law in England. By allowing Natalia Potanina’s financial claims to proceed despite her divorce being finalised in Russia the court confirmed its ability to intervene where a spouse claims they have received insufficient provision from a foreign divorce. Mrs Potanina was found to have a real and meaningful connection to England – she held a UK investor visa, owned property here, and had been habitually resident for over a year. The Judge did not agree with Mr Potanin’s claim that his ex-wife was a ‘divorce tourist’.

“The court also commented that under the Russian divorce Mrs Potanina received a “tiny fraction” of the sum she would have received if she had divorced in England, and that this may be more significant when Mr Potanin is required to give disclosure of his assets here. In those circumstances the Judge commented that it would be appropriate for the court to make a further financial award to Mrs Potanina, the extent of which will need to be determined at a further hearing.   

“This decision may now open the door to a raft of applications that have been waiting in the wings for clarity. It is clear this ruling will shape how we advise international clients going forward. While the procedure for these applications has been tightened, the court have made clear that if jurisdiction is established and there’s a real prospect of success for a spouse with a meaningful connection to this country, claims may still proceed with a broad discretion afforded to Judges – perhaps supporting the view that England is the ‘divorce capital of the world’.”

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About Peter Burgess

Peter is one of the two founding partners at Burgess Mee Family Law.

Having trained at top family law firm Withers LLP, Peter founded Burgess Mee with in 2013, where he advises on the full spectrum of family law issues across the firm’s three offices. Peter is also an FMC accredited mediator.

Get in touch with Peter today:

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About Sital Fontenelle

Sital Fontenelle is the Head of the Family & Divorce team at Kingsley Napley. She specialises in the complex financial aspects of a divorce, negotiating and drafting of nuptial agreements as well as private children law cases. She typically acts for high-net-worth individuals, often on cases involving an international dimension, offshore trusts, family businesses, inherited wealth or asset tracing. She is also highly experienced in complex children cases. Sital is an active member of the Resolution Cohabitation committee and regularly speaks at international conferences on wealth protection and trusts. She is a recognised leader in her field in legal directories, including the Chambers Ultra High Net Worth Guide, Legal 500 UK, Chambers UK (finance and children) and Spears. As well as being ‘Recommended’ in the Spear’s 2023 Family Law Index, she won silver in the Woman of the Year – Future Leaders (Partner) category at the Powerwomen Awards 2020.

About Sean Hilton

Sean assists clients on a broad spectrum of matters ranging from complex high-value financial proceedings following divorce, to disputes in relation to children. For instance, Sean advises unmarried families on the consequences of a relationship breakdown and is instructed on pre and post nuptial agreements, often with an international element. Sean is considered as a “Rising Star” by the Legal 500 Directory and in the Thompson Reuters Super Lawyers List, and has recently been shortlisted for Family Lawyer of the Year – Senior/Managing Associate in the CityWealth Future Leader Awards.

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Navigating Divorce with Grace: Insights into Collaborative Law

Embarking on the journey of divorce or separation can be daunting, but there are alternative methods to traditional litigation that prioritise cooperation and mutual agreement. In this exclusive Q&A session, we sit down with Charlotte Bradley, an esteemed expert from Kingsley Napley, to delve into the world of Collaborative Law.

Discover insights, tips, and invaluable advice on how Collaborative Law can pave the way for amicable resolutions and a smoother transition during challenging times.

What is collaborative law/practice?

Collaborative family law (or practice) is a way in which a separating couple can, on a consensual basis, resolve issues without court proceedings.  You, your former partner/spouse and your respective lawyers all work together to resolve the various matters arising from separation, including the financial issues and the arrangements for any children.

How does it work?

Each client appoints a collaborative lawyer and the couple and their lawyers then consider the issues which should be addressed, and also which professionals to involve, for example a child specialist to consider the child arrangements, counsellors to support the parties and a financial professional to help with future financial planning. The lawyers and clients sign an agreement in which they all agree not to go to court and instead there is a series of meetings in which a transparent and open dialogue is encouraged. While each lawyer is representing their respective client, the professionals and the couple strive to work together as a team, with the joint aim of avoiding court proceedings. If either party decides they must go to court to obtain a final decision, then each of the couple need to instruct new lawyers.

How does it differ from other ADR options (such as mediation)?

Mediation uses a similar model of face to face meetings, but a mediator is not representing either of the couple. Although they can provide lots of information about options (the court process etc), the mediator is unable to advise on the likely outcome of any proposed settlement. For most family mediation, lawyers tend not to be in attendance (although increasingly, hybrid mediation where the lawyers are in attendance is becoming more common). Some individuals prefer the support of having a lawyer with them in meetings to help discuss and negotiate the various issues as happens in collaborative law.

What are the advantages?

Each client has the support of their trained collaborative lawyer who contracts with the couple to act in a constructive way and are encouraged to put all the family’s (including any children’s interests) at the forefront. For clients who feel insecure about attending mediation without their lawyer next to them (for example if there is a significant disparity in financial knowledge or bargaining power), collaborative law can be a good option as they can seek advice and support throughout albeit the advice that their lawyer gives is more transparent and negotiations should be less polarised than in the traditional court model. The possibility of counselling input and expert assistance around the children’s needs is actively encouraged. The flexibility of the process also enables other professionals to be brought in when needed, for example it is not unusual to bring in a financial planner and other professionals to help consider the future finances for the family including cash flow modelling, options around pensions etc.

What are the downsides?

Collaborative law is not suitable for everyone, and best serves couples who show a commitment to finding a solution to the various issues themselves but with legal support and advice. It is also only suitable for those who expect to give full and frank disclosure about their respective financial positions and other circumstances. Sometimes, if one of the couple wishes to delay the divorce (for example they intentionally postpone meetings etc), the collaborative process can be slow and costs can increase so careful managing of the process is required (and the lawyers and the couple need to be confident that the process is right for them before signing up). The collaborative agreement, requiring couples to change lawyers if the process breaks down and they want to go to court, can sometimes concern potential clients but that disqualification clause is important to encourage the couple and their lawyers to have the right solution focused mindset, to enable non-polarised negotiation and to resolve the issues.

Do you still have to go to court at the end?

No one needs to attend court and if agreement is reached, the collaborative lawyers can transfer the financial agreement into a draft consent order which is lodged at court (with financial summaries) for the judge to approve. It is also common in collaborative law (as it is in mediation) for the couple to prepare and sign a parenting plan setting out the arrangements for the children (although that is not routinely lodged at court).

How long does it take and how much does it cost?

Both answers depend on the issues to be resolved and how engaged the couple (and their lawyers) are to reaching a resolution. If they are committed to the process, and regular ‘four way’ meetings are diarised without delay in between, then collaborative law can be very quick as there is no court timetable applying. Or sometimes one or both of the couple can take time to come to terms with the breakdown of the marriage and resolve the various issues and need more time between four way meetings to reflect and to take advice from their collaborative lawyer. As to costs, they can vary depending on the amount of meetings and how complicated the issues are as the costs will depend on the amount of time the two lawyers spend on the collaborative case (typically based on their hourly rates). It can often be cheaper if the couple bring other professionals to assist on key areas (eg on the child arrangements or for cash flow modelling).

What else can it be used for (eg pre-nups)?

Collaborative law is very flexible and can be used in all areas of potential family dispute. It is particularly effective when couples are discussing the terms of a prenuptial or cohabitation agreement – so that each of them are having clear and transparent discussions with shared professional advice about their future plans and intentions, critical in my experience as different approaches on money and children can cause problems in a marriage or long- term relationship.

Is it a US import? What has changed in the last 20 years in the way it is used here?

So I did the first training in Europe just over 20 years ago (collaborative law having first started in the US and Canada), and with others, helped establish collaborative practice in the UK. What has changed is that we are more aware of the need to bring in non- legal professionals into the collaborative process (eg child specialists and counsellors) to really focus on the solutions for families on separation, with the law being only one small part.

How does it fit with clogged family courts, no-fault divorce, and other modern family law /societal trends?

Collaborative law is one of the now established methods of non-court resolution and, along with other non-court processes (like mediation) is actively encouraged by the government and the judiciary. Following the introduction of no-fault divorce two years ago to help reduce conflict between divorcing couples, there is strong encouragement for couples to resolve their differences without attending court, to reduce cost, the pressure on the court system and also to help avoid the effects of conflict on children which can be caused by long legal battles. And as new court rules come into law on 29 April 2024 to ensure that all couples consider non-court options such as mediation and collaborative law, collaborative practice is likely to be something that becomes of more interest to separating couples in the years to come.

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About Charlotte Bradley

Charlotte Bradley is a Consultant and former head of the Family team at Kingsley Napley LLP. She advises on all aspects of family law, particularly issues to do with finances and children. She is author of the respected legal textbook on Schedule 1 cases. She is also an accredited mediator and collaborative lawyer, often working with high profile and high net worth couples keen to resolve their separation in private.

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Review of the latest ONS statistics

Sital-Fontenelle
Sital Fontenelle
Head of the Family & Divorce
Kingsley Napley

The latest ONS statistics show that the number of people divorcing is at the lowest rate since 1971.

There has been a 29.5% decrease in divorces in 2022 compared with 2021. There were 78,759 opposite-sex divorces, which is a decrease of 29.6% from 2021. Same-sex divorces also decreased, to 1,298 in 2022 representing a decrease of 17.4% compared to 2021.

Interestingly the median duration of marriage at divorce was 12.9 years for opposite sex couples, a fractional increase compared with 12.3 years in 2021. For same-sex divorces in 2022, the median duration of marriage was 7.5 years for male same-sex couples and 6.3 years for female same-sex couples.

As the Government press release suggests, the declining divorce rate can perhaps partly be attributed to the Divorce, Dissolution and Separation Act, effective from April 2022 which introduced new mandatory waiting periods during the divorce process.

Undoubtedly, however, there are also societal trends going on. The cost-of-living crisis may have deterred some couples from divorcing, although based on our experience of the 2007 financial crisis, this will probably mean divorces are delayed rather than decided against altogether. Recorded divorces are happening later and after longer marriages, but at the same time cohabitation is on the rise for younger couples.

Despite today’s figures, the fact is divorce and separation still affect many couples and families. We continue to see this in our work although increasingly clients are willing to mediate or explore alternative forms of dispute resolution to agree terms both financially and for the sake of their children. The good news is that there are now a variety of ways to go about that depending on the circumstances and how couples wish to approach such a significant event.

More articles by Sital Fontenelle.

Sital Fontenelle

Sital Fontenelle is the Head of the Family & Divorce team at Kingsley Napley. She specialises in the complex financial aspects of a divorce, negotiating and drafting of nuptial agreements as well as private children law cases. She typically acts for high-net-worth individuals, often on cases involving an international dimension, offshore trusts, family businesses, inherited wealth or asset tracing. She is also highly experienced in complex children cases. Sital is an active member of the Resolution Cohabitation committee and regularly speaks at international conferences on wealth protection and trusts. She is a recognised leader in her field in legal directories, including the Chambers Ultra High Net Worth Guide, Legal 500 UK, Chambers UK (finance and children) and Spears. As well as being ‘Recommended’ in the Spear’s 2023 Family Law Index, she won silver in the Woman of the Year – Future Leaders (Partner) category at the Powerwomen Awards 2020. 
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Everything You Need to Know About Family Mediation Process

Stacey Nevin
Stacey Nevin
Partner
Kingsley Napley LLP

In this Mediation Week, Stacey Nevin explains all you need to know about the family mediation process

Mediation is a confidential and voluntary process which involves a series of meetings between a couple and a mediator in which, together, they try to reach an agreement, perhaps on financial matters and/or children arrangements, during a divorce or separation.

A mediator’s role is to guide you and your ex through the process and assist you both in reaching an agreement, rather than to advise you. Importantly the mediator is a neutral professional meaning all the choices and decisions remain yours.

The drawbacks

The mediation process does not guarantee an outcome. The process is voluntary, so either you or your ex can end the process at any time and a decision cannot be imposed. The negotiations also remain confidential, and cannot be referred to in correspondence or court proceedings.

However, the only process that guarantees an outcome for a separating couple is a final hearing in front of a judge (whether this is by way of a private arbitration process or via the public courts), which can be expensive and slow.

The benefits

Even if you have solicitors in the background, mediation usually results in significant cost savings as the work of solicitors is greatly reduced. Where mediation does not result in an overall agreement, it can still narrow the issues so that the work your solicitors need to do is reduced.

There is an increasing push towards transparency in English courts, and so publicity is no longer a worry just for celebrity clientele.  Mediation offers complete privacy.

The family mediation process sees you and your ex coming to a compromised agreement, rather than having a judge (a total stranger to you and your family) impose an outcome. There’s a great power in this and research has suggested that couples are more likely to comply with terms to which they have agreed rather than terms they have had imposed on them.

Not only can mediation be more flexible in outcome, but the process itself is less rigid. You and your ex get to set the agenda and can tailor the process to suit your needs and priorities, with a timetable that works for you both.

Third parties can also be brought into the process by agreement. I have mediated a couple who were seeing a family therapist in parallel, to support them in telling their children they were separating. Her involvement was crucial in helping my clients move forward with living apart as they felt more confident in telling their children and had more trust in each other in doing so. Whilst they were separating, for the purpose of that conversation they were a real partnership, focused solely on their children, and it got their co-parenting journey after separation off on a far better footing.

I’ve also conducted mediations with my clients’ financial advisors present, who adjusted forecasts in the session as proposals changed.

The structure of mediation can be flexible too. The traditional model sees both individuals sat around a table with the mediator, either in person or remotely. But there are now options like shuttle mediation, whereby each person is in a different room, with the mediator shuttling between the two. This can even be conducted remotely, with the use of breakout rooms.

If both individuals and the mediator agree, solicitors can attend mediation meetings for the purpose of getting legal advice without delaying the momentum of discussions.

What can be mediated?

Any issue can be mediated.  Mediation can relate to finances and can also be used for issues relating to arrangements for children.

It can also be used to help a couple reach agreement on very discrete points. For example, I have had clients use mediation to agree on how to introduce a new partner into their children’s lives and another wanted to discuss arrangements for a dog loved by both the parents and their children. In that respect, mediation can be a very proportionate way of dealing with more discrete matters.

Is mediation always appropriate?

No, and part of the mediator’s role is to assess the suitability of the case for mediation.

If mediation comes to an end for any reason, without an overall agreement, your mediator will usually explain alternative options to you and signpost you to any helpful resources.

Can mediation be used where there has been domestic abuse?

An old-fashioned view is that mediation can never be appropriate where there has been domestic abuse. I find this quite problematic when a survivor of domestic abuse wants to mediate. Domestic abuse can remove the agency and control from victims, and I am loathed to remove that if survivors want to mediate. By taking mediation off the table, there is potentially a greater risk of court proceedings, which is a process that can be traumatic for some.

However, the decision to mediate where there has been abuse must be one that is taken carefully. The family mediation process must be safe, and should not be used as a means to continue abuse. Your mediator needs to be confident that they can address any power imbalance, so both of you feel comfortable with voicing honest views in the room and will not feel pressurised into an agreement with which you’re not happy. Shuttle mediation can help with this.

Sometimes, however, it’s still not possible to ensure there is a balance of power or that mediation can remain a safe process, and a mediator then needs to conclude that mediation is not suitable. In these circumstances, they will usually signpost you to resources that might be able to offer you further support or guidance.

Can children be involved?

Children can be involved directly in the family mediation process by way of a Child Inclusive Mediator. These are specially trained mediators, who are able to speak to children directly in separate sessions (i.e. without their parents present) about their wishes and feelings in order to give them a voice in the process.  This mediator will then feedback on their views to both parents (with the child’s permission) and the parent’s mediator.

It can be very helpful for a child to know they have a way to have their voice heard.

Is mediation easy?

Not always. Even an amicable divorce isn’t easy. The nature of the feelings and emotions involved makes that almost certain. Mediation requires effort, by both individuals. Like any aspect of separation, it can feel like a rollercoaster at times; you may finish one session feeling more positive than your ex, and that might flip by the end of the next session, as different topics are explored.

But long term, it is often a far healthier route for separating couples and families. Like any healthy lifestyle, it can feel like hard work at first but the long-term benefits make the effort worthwhile in the end.

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About Stacey Nevin

Stacey Nevin, an associate in the Family & Divorce Law team at Kingsley Napley LLP. She works on cases involving all aspects of family law including maintenance cases, private children cases and relocation cases.

The Pros and Cons of Nesting
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The Pros and Cons of Nesting

Connie Atkinson
Connie Atkinson
Partner
Kingsley Napley
Rachel Freeman
Rachel Freeman
Partner
Kingsley Napley

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The recent news that Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau and his wife Sophie are separating after 18 years of marriage hit the headlines not only because they are a high profile couple on the political world stage but because they intend to opt for a nesting pattern of co-parenting their three children from here on – an approach which is also growing in popularity on this side of the pond. In this article Kingsley Napley Family Law partners Connie Atkinson and Rachel Freeman explore the pros and cons of nesting arrangements for separating couples.

What is a nesting arrangement?

It is an arrangement which sees children remain in the family home while the parents take it in turns to leave and live elsewhere for short periods. A second, usually smaller, property is rented or purchased and each parent stays there when they are not in the family home with the children.  In some families, where finances permit, each parent has their own separate property where they live when they are not in the family home.

What are the pros for children?

In the right circumstances, birdnesting gives children and parents time to adjust to a separation without significant changes being imposed immediately. Children often crave stability when parents decide to split and being able to remain in their home while navigating their feelings around their parents’ separation can be helpful.

If children remain in the family home, they can maintain their routines and local friendships and remain at the same school, clubs and activities.  Children avoid having to shuttle between two homes and retain the familiar and safe space in their bedroom with all their belongings in one place.

What are the cons for children?

In reality birdnesting is only likely to work for a small number of families and in many cases only for a short period of time. Children need to adjust to the reality of their parents’ separation which includes a new home and bedroom with the other parent. In some cases the former family home is going to be sold at some point and so there will be a change of environment for children in any event. If birdnesting is attempted in unsuitable cases, it can risk creating (or sustaining) a toxic environment for children in what is supposed to be their safe space.

What are the pros for parents?

In the right circumstances birdnesting gives parents time to adjust to the separation too and avoid the need for numerous moves before buying a new home. It can also help remove the pressure of agreeing arrangements for the children immediately upon separation.

Parents might feel strongly about minimising disruption to their children, particularly if they themselves have unhappy memories of moving between two homes on divorce in their youth.

Birdnesting can save costs, avoiding the need, for example, to buy two sets of bedroom furniture, clothes, toys and books.  It might offer a solution where the parents cannot afford two family homes upon divorce; with a nesting arrangement they only need one home big enough for a parent and the children and the other property can be much smaller.

What are the cons for parents?

In reality, birdnesting is unlikely to work long term. People move on at different paces following separation and it is not unusual for the parents’ views and priorities to take different directions as time moves on, which can make birdnesting more difficult. Birdnesting also becomes much more difficult if new partners are involved or when the separated spouses find a new relationship.

A downside of birdnesting is that it does not allow parents to move on and live independent lives. This is relevant in the context of the court’s usual approach on divorce which is to achieve a clean break between the parties where possible. Birdnesting means still running one, or even two, households together with all the costs, bills, food, cleaning, chores, maintenance and other admin that that entails. There are likely to be constant reminders of a former partner, seeing their belongings around or evidence of their daily routine and habits. Depending on the size of the property, parents might also have to use the same bedroom and bathroom as their former partner which can feel uncomfortable.

Birdnesting requires a lot of communication and organisation, particularly at the beginning when emotions can be very raw.

What practical tips might help to make nesting work?

  • Explore whether birdnesting will work by discussing your intentions and the practicalities in an appropriate forum such as mediation.
  • Parents need to have maintained a positive relationship on separation and be good at communicating with one another.
  • Agree a set of household rules and responsibilities, including how to deal with food shopping, bills, repairs, and who else can be in the home.
  • Have regular meetings to consider what is working well with the nesting arrangement and whether anything needs to be changed.
  • Employ a cleaner, especially for handover days.
  • Consider how personal belongings and communications will be dealt with to ensure each parent can maintain some privacy.

According to recent research by Coop Legal Services some 11% of divorced or separated parents in the UK have tried birdnesting and in the current economic climate it may well appeal to more separating couples, to avoid the costs of running two homes large enough for the children or if the family home cannot be sold.  Every family is different and the family’s individual circumstances and dynamics will dictate whether birdnesting works for the parents and their children and for the long or short term.

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About Connie Atkinson and Rachel Freeman

Connie is a Partner in the family team and has experience of dealing with all aspects of private family work relating to both finances and children. She is recognised as a Rising Star Legal 500 UK for Family: Mediation and ranked in Chambers UK as up and coming in Family/Matrimonial. Connie also won family lawyer of the year and national private client lawyer of the year at the Private Client Modern Law Awards 2023.

Rachel is a partner in Kingsley Napley’s family and divorce team. She specialises in dealing with financial settlements and the arrangements for children arising upon the breakdown of a relationship. Rachel is recognised in the Legal 500 and the Citywealth Leaders and Powerwomen Leaders lists.

Ending a Civil Partnership or a Marriage: What are the Differences?
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Ending a Civil Partnership or a Marriage: What are the Differences?

Alexandra Bishop
Alexandra Bishop
Senior Associate
Kingsley Napley

Civil partnerships were first introduced in the Civil Partnership Act 2004 as a way for same sex couples to have their relationships legally recognised. Since 2019 couples irrespective of sex have been able enter into a civil partnership.

There are no real differences when ending a civil partnership or a marriage, or at least there are very few variations. This seems right given the context in which civil partnerships and same sex marriage came into play – to ensure the equal treatment for men and women regardless of sexual orientation to enter into a legally recognised partnership. This same equality and non-discrimination is reflected in the legal process to end a civil partnership or a marriage and the same legal and financial protection is given to couples when a marriage or civil partnership comes to an end.

Disappointingly, the law that protects those in legally recognised relationships is currently still lacking when it comes to protection for cohabiting couples where there is only a limited ability to make financial claims. As such there is a very real difference between ending a civil partnership or a marriage and ending a relationship that is not legally recognised.

Terminology

In England and Wales, aside from a difference in terminology (if you want to end a civil partnership you apply for a dissolution and if you want to end your marriage you apply for a divorce), the rules and the process for dissolution and divorce are the same.

If parties who are married or have entered into a civil partnership in England are seeking to divorce abroad, however, it is important to take specific advice in that jurisdiction. Whilst opposite sex marriage formed in England and Wales is recognised worldwide, civil partnerships and same sex marriages are recognised in some countries but certainly not all. It will very much depend on the jurisdiction where a couple intends to divorce as to whether that country recognises a civil partnership and as to the rights such couples might have under local law, regardless of the clear position in England.

The process for obtaining a divorce or dissolution

Since the introduction of “no fault” divorce on 6 April 2022 when The Divorce, Dissolution and Separation Act 2020 came into effect, the person applying for a divorce or dissolution only has to confirm within the divorce application that the marriage or partnership has broken down irretrievably and no supporting facts or evidence are required. This welcome change has allowed couples to end their marriages jointly and has removed the need for either party to blame the other for the breakdown of the relationship.

The process now takes place online via a court portal. If both parties agree to a divorce or dissolution then a joint application can be made. Alternatively, if just one party agrees to a divorce or dissolution then a sole application would be made. However, parties can only make the application once they have been married or in a civil partnership for over a year. The next stage of the divorce or dissolution is the application for a conditional order (the first stage of divorce and dissolution) which can be made 20 weeks after the application was issued. Once the conditional order has been pronounced there is a minimum timescale of six weeks and one day before the applicant can apply for a final order (for married couples) and a dissolution order (for couples in a civil partnership), which legally ends a marriage or partnership.

There is a very slight difference in the grounds required to annul a marriage compared to a civil partnership. Annulment is a different way of ending a marriage or civil partnership. Unlike divorce, either party can apply for an annulment in the first year of marriage or a civil partnership, although there needs to be very specific reasons for this. Annulment is very unusual. One of the grounds to be able to annul an opposite sex marriage is that a marriage has not been consummated since the wedding, although this does not apply to same sex marriage or civil partnership. Another reason a married couple could annul is because the respondent had a sexually transmitted disease when they married and the applicant was unaware of it at the time. Again this is not a valid reason to annul a civil partnership. 

Resolving the finances upon a divorce or dissolution

Married couples and couples in a civil partnership have the same financial claims upon a divorce or dissolution under the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973 and the Civil Partnership Act 2004.  There is no difference in the application of the law in determining a fair and reasonable financial settlement upon a divorce or dissolution. In the context of these financial proceedings, the court has the powers to make the following financial orders: property adjustment orders (transferring properties between spouses or civil partners or a sale of the assets), lump sum orders, pension orders (sharing a pension with your spouse or civil partner) and periodical payments (payments made from one spouse or civil partner to the other to provide income support).

Although the nature of civil partnerships and marriages in terms of their meaning and historical context are very different and couples may have strong reasons for choosing marriage over a civil partnership or vice versa, the legal protections afforded to these couples and the process for ending these relationships are essentially the same.

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About Alexandra Bishop

Alexandra is a Senior Associate in the Family and Divorce team at Kingsley Napley, with experience of all types of private family law work relating to both finances and children.

Alexandra offers practical and realistic advice and provides excellent care for her clients, working through technical legal problems pro-actively to achieve the best possible result.  She has been recognised for her work in Legal 500 2019, one of the leading legal directories in the UK.

Marriage is going 'out of fashion' today's Census reveals
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Marriage is going ‘out of fashion’ today’s Census reveals

Abby Buckland
Abby Buckland
Family and Divorce
Partner
Kingsley Napley

The latest Census on marriage and civil partnership status in England and Wales, released this morning, shows that the number of people getting married is at the lowest rate on record and the median age of those getting married is increasing.

The data also suggests a divergence of approach to traditional relationship structures between generations. While more people are choosing not to marry or form a civil partnership at all, this is being seen in a far greater proportion in younger age groups.

The biggest increase in this trend is evident in the 25 to 29 years age group, where 73.9% chose not to marry or be in a civil partnership in 2011 rising to 84.2% in 2021. The increase for those aged 30 to 34 years was from 49.2% to 58.9% between 2011 and 2021.

Today’s data confirms that marriage is falling “out of fashion”. These statistics should add weight to the importance of the Government bringing proper focus to the rights of cohabiting couples.

Disappointingly, reform in this area was effectively shelved by the Government at the end of last year, a decision which, this data shows, could leave huge numbers of individuals without effective legal protections should their relationships end.

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About Abby Buckland

Abby is a Partner in the Family and Divorce team in Kingsley Napley who undertakes matters involving all aspects of private family law and in particular complex financial issues and private children cases.

Going through a divorce? Don't forget to update your Will! 
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Going through a divorce? Don’t forget to update your Will! 

Stephanie Mooney
Stephanie Mooney
Associate in the Private Client team
Kingsley Napley LLP

Going through a divorce process is stressful. There are lots of things to think about and one of these is likely to be what you should do to protect your hard-earned money.

It is essential to have a suitably drafted Will in place to ensure that your assets pass according to your wishes in the event of your untimely death.

If you die without a valid Will, the intestacy rules will dictate how your assets are distributed following your death.

If you are married without children, the intestacy rules state that your entire estate will pass to your spouse.  If you are married with children then your spouse keeps the first £270,000 and all the personal possessions. The remainder of the estate is divided in half, with one half passing to the spouse and the other half being divided equally between the children.

A divorce is only legally finalised once decree absolute has been granted. If you were to die before this, without a valid Will, a substantial portion of your assets would pass to your spouse – this is not an ideal scenario for most people.

This outcome can be avoided by making a Will stating who you want your assets to pass to. If you have young children, it is likely that a flexible Will containing some form of protective trust would be best for you.  The Will would appoint trustees to manage funds for your children on your behalf until they reach a certain age. It would also address who should be guardian(s) of your children in the event that you and their other parent die whilst the children are under the age of 18.

If you already have a Will which benefits your spouse, you ought to update this early on in the divorce process. It is not unheard of that someone will die whilst part way through divorce proceedings, with the unintended consequence of assets passing to their spouse.

Even once the divorce process is complete, it is important to note that divorce does not revoke a Will. It is clearer and better to take control and prepare a new Will which does exactly what you want it to do.

It is easy to push preparing a Will to the bottom of the to-do list. However, as part of the divorce proceedings you will most likely be taking a closer look at your assets and financial position.  This is an important step in the process of making a Will, so it makes sense to tick this off the list at the same time.

It can be difficult to know what sort of Will you want (or need) during the divorce proceedings when you do not know what your asset position will be at the end of the process. Rather than taking the risk of waiting to update your Will, it is advisable to ask your solicitor to prepare a “holding Will” for you. This can put some very simple protections in place during the interim. The holding Will can easily be revisited once the divorce and financial settlement are finalised.

When reviewing your finances and your Will, you should also ensure that you do not overlook assets which do not usually pass by Will, such as life policies written in trust, death in service benefits and pensions.  Any nomination forms and expressions of wishes should be brought up to date to reflect your wishes.

Note: All references to “marriage” above include civil partnerships and references to “spouse” also include civil partners. 

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About Stephanie Mooney

Stephanie Mooney is an Associate in the Private Client team at law firm Kingsley Napley LLP. She advises on succession planning, the preparation of Wills, inheritance tax, trust creation and administration, mental capacity and the administration of estates.

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What happens to children when parents split up

What happens to children when parents split up

Family solicitor
Charlotte Bradley
Head of the Family team
Kingsley Napley

Kingsley Napley’s Head of Family Law Charlotte Bradley has been interviewed by Kid’s Law podcasters 10 year old Alma-Constance and her colleague Lucinda for a new podcast series which aims to explain different areas of the law to children and young people aged 8-16.

Charlotte was asked to talk about how family law and the legal process affects children when their parents split up. The podcast covers the role of solicitors, judges and the court; how mediators can help parents to sort out their differences away from a court setting; and to what extent children can voice their views on where they live and who they spend time with post-divorce.

Charlotte also discusses how child therapists, counsellors, grandparents and even teachers can help and support children experiencing a divorce situation.

As the mother of 11 year old twins and a divorcee herself, Charlotte was chosen by the podcasters because is well placed to explain the law on both a professional and personal level.

The podcast can be accessed here and is only 15 minutes long. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1577473/8114545-what-happens-to-children-when-parents-split-up

About Charlotte Bradley

Charlotte is head of the Family team at Kingsley Napley, where she has been a partner since 2001. Charlotte specialises in all aspects of family law, particularly international issues, both in relation to finance and children. She has a reputation for

cross border jurisdiction issues, particularly European and Relocation cases, and for acting for unmarried parents in Schedule 1 (financial provision) cases.

She is listed as a leading expert in her field in the legal directories Chambers UK, Chambers High Net Worth and Legal 500 UK and she was ranked as Top Recommended in Spear’s Family Law Index 2020 and included in the Fourth Edition of The Best Lawyers in the United Kingdom for Family Law – Children, Finance. She has also been shortlisted as  Family Law Partner of the year in 2019 in both the Family Law Awards and Chambers High Net Worth Awards.

Women Ignore Pensions on Divorce at their Peril

Women Ignore Pensions on Divorce at their Peril

Jane Keir
Jane Keir
Family and Divorce Law Partner
at Kingsley Napley LLP

“Divorced Women missing out on Pensions Wealth was the recent Daily Telegraph headline that caught my eye reporting on a study by Royal London and comments by their Director of Policy, Sir Steve Webb (former Minister of State for Pensions in David Cameron’s coalition government).

Not surprisingly the study found that divorced women tend to fare worse than married women or divorced men when it comes to their pension pot.

Couples over 50 typically have a £454,000 pot the research said, compared with the average £131,000 for divorced women and £235,000 for divorced men in the same age group.

So why is this?  Well pensions are the most complex of assets to evaluate on divorce and so many shy away from lifting the bonnet on a pension and having a proper look at what lies beneath and how to value it. 

The divorce process is expensive enough, especially where there are real differences between the parties as to what a fair financial settlement should look like, so the tendency is just to include the latest cash equivalent value (CEV) figure for the pensions in the calculations and then mistakenly treat them as if they are effectively liquid, or semi liquid assets, similar to a house, or an ISA, or savings in the bank. 

It is relatively easy to agree upon the value of the house.  You know what you bought it for and quite enjoy looking at websites to see how its value compares with its neighbours and of course, there is always Zoopla.  Not so for pensions.  Even if you do know what they consist of, how on earth are you going to value them accurately?

What typically plays out is then this. One party – and it is usually the husband – keeps the pension and gives credit for its value against the value of the family home.  “She gets the house, he gets the pension”.  If no-one takes the time or trouble to actually properly value the pensions, it could be that one spouse gets the benefit of an asset which is worth much more than its face value and even more so in years to come. 

So what should women mid-divorce or contemplating divorce do about pensions? 

At the very least, get a sense check as to the value of your pensions as a couple. Find a good financial adviser with qualifications in advising and assisting with regard to pensions. See more than one and find someone who impresses you. Shop around. Much depends on the type of pension scheme. Some may be easy to value and require no more than the annual statement of benefits provided by the pension scheme. Others may require an actuary to provide the answers to what the fund is worth.

The question of valuing such pensions should be addressed jointly by the parties and their advisers, as required by Financial Remedy Rules, so that both parties have an input as to how the valuation is carried out and actually there is a joint liability to meet the cost of the valuation exercise. 

In my experience independent financial advisers are very keen to accept an instruction upon the basis that if the pension is shared – i.e. divided, then it is more likely than not that a new pension scheme will be required and thus a new client created.

Women ignore pensions on divorce at their peril.

It is important to find out what they are worth and make sure that their full value appears in any asset schedule notwithstanding that the benefits may not yet be available in the way that cash and property are. Equally consider a pension sharing order – they were introduced to enable pensions to be divided – or in some cases transferred outright – between spouses.

Divorce lawyers have a responsibility to encourage proper pension valuation to be a natural and automatic part of the financial disclosure process on divorce. That will help to mend and not just mind that pensions gap.

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About Jane Keir

Jane Keir, a family and divorce law partner at Kingsley Napley LLP

Described as the only ‘eminent’ practitioner in the current London solicitor rankings, Jane advises on the protection of wealth, both pre and post divorce and her breadth of experience both in negotiating discreet settlements and in taking cases to trial, mean that she is much in demand by individual clients and Family Offices alike.