What Leaving my Kids Meant and Did to Me!

I don’t know how many women leave a marriage and leave their children behind. I still don’t know how many openly talk about it to help and heal more. I remember a comment Soila once made probably on a previous post of


Parental Alienation Stories

According to Wikipedia: Parental alienation is a social dynamic when a child expresses unjustified hatred or unreasonably strong dislike of one parent, making access by the rejected parent difficult or impossible. These feelings may be influenced by negative comments by the other parent or

Divorce and Property: My African Reflection

Divorce is a very difficult journey not in the least when it comes to living through and experiencing the dismantling of  a ‘joint venture’ that you spend time and effort creating. What happens to the property of that ‘joint venture’ after the

The Adulterous Woman

Going by the stories I have shared with you so far, you will see that my life has so far been pretty unconventional. I am that woman who wanted to be married no matter what rather than be single and I paid

And one Divorce Led to the Other!

Well, I should start by stating some facts right? Ok, the both divorces weren’t mine per se but that of my parents and then my own. Could we talk of Family History? I read with interest the article by JungleDiva right here

Marriage My Refuge

I Know many would wonder at the awkwardness of such a title! Should Marriage be considered as a Refuge in any right thinking mind? Surely, I was out of my mind right? Well, I think I am not the only one who at some