Divorce is widely cited as one of life’s most taxing experiences, ranking high on the scale of emotional and physical stress. Amidst the sea of legal paperwork and emotional recalibration, one of the most daunting hurdles is the question of “home.” Whether you are leaving a shared property to find a new sanctuary or looking to buy out a former partner, the bricks and mortar of your life often represent the first tangible step toward a new beginning.
As we move into 2026, the financial landscape for single applicants is evolving. “Divorce is one of life’s most significant transitions,” explains John Fraser-Tucker, Head of Mortgages at online mortgage broker, Mojo Mortgages. “While the emotional weight is often the primary focus, the financial shift, particularly regarding a family home, requires a clear-headed strategy”.
To help you navigate this transition, we’ve worked with John Fraser-Tucker at Mojo Mortgages to provide a comprehensive guide to securing your solo financial future;
1. Auditing the ‘Solo Economy’
“The shift from a dual-income household to a ‘solo economy’ is often the sharpest adjustment a person will make. Before even browsing property listings, you must perform a rigorous audit of your “new normal”. This isn’t just about what you earn; it’s about how your post-divorce cash flow appears to a lender.”
“Lenders today are more nuanced in how they view income, but they are also incredibly thorough:
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Maintenance as Income: “If you are the primary caregiver and receive child maintenance or spousal support, these figures can often be used to bolster your affordability.
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Maintenance as Liability: “Conversely, if you are the one making payments, these are factored into your debt-to-income ratio.
“Understanding these critical figures early on prevents the heartbreak of falling in love with a property only to be declined by a lender later.”
2. Bridging the ‘Affordability Gap’
“For many, the most significant obstacle is the affordability gap. When you lose a second income, your borrowing power naturally decreases, often making it feel as though the homes you want are out of reach.
However, the team at Mojo Mortgages notes that “fresh starters” have a unique advantage: “Equity.” Fraser-Tucker states, “If you are selling a marital home, your share of that equity can be a powerful tool. By injecting a larger deposit into your next purchase, you can secure a lower Loan-to-Value (LTV) ratio. This doesn’t just make the mortgage more likely to be approved; it unlocks more competitive, lower interest rates that can make monthly solo payments far more manageable.”
3. The Great Debate: To Buy or To Rent?
“There is often a societal pressure to ‘get back on the ladder’ immediately, but the expert consensus is to move at your own pace” says Fraser-Tucker.
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The Case for Renting: “Many financial advisors suggest renting for six to twelve months. This period acts as a vital ‘buffer zone’, allowing you to understand your new lifestyle costs, such as utility bills, groceries, and commute expenses on a single income, without the long-term commitment of a mortgage.”
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The Case for Buying: “If your settlement is finalised and you have a deposit ready, buying offers the long-term stability and psychological peace of mind that many crave after a period of upheaval. Buying allows you to begin building equity for your own future immediately.”
“Ultimately, the choice depends on where you are in your legal journey and what you feel you can comfortably afford for yourself.”
4. Avoiding the ‘Financial Ghost’ of Your Ex
“One of the most common – and potentially devastating – mistakes is failing to completely sever financial ties. If your name remains on a joint mortgage for a property you no longer live in, lenders will view that entire mortgage as your liability. This will drastically limit, or even entirely block, your ability to borrow for a new home.”
“Not only this, your credit score can be haunted by your ex-partner’s habits.” To protect your future, Fraser-Tucker recommends:
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Closing all joint accounts as soon as possible.
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Filing a ‘Notice of Disassociation’ with major credit agencies. “This ensures that if an ex-partner struggles with debt or late payments in the future, it won’t impact your ability to get a mortgage, a car loan, or even a credit card.”
5. Strategy Over Speed
“Starting over is a marathon, not a sprint. It is tempting to rush the process to feel settled, but the most successful transitions are those built on expert advice and a foundation of facts.
“By securing a free Mortgage in Principle early, you can move forward with the confidence that your new beginning is built on solid ground,” says Fraser-Tucker. A Mortgage in Principle helps give you an idea of how much you are able to afford, allowing you to house-hunt with a more realistic budget and a clearer head (though you should bear in mind a Mortgage in Principle isn’t official and should only be taken as an estimate).”
Your home should be your sanctuary. By implementing these strategic steps and seeking expert advice, you can ensure your transition is supported by a robust financial framework, providing the necessary clarity and confidence to move forward into your next chapter.
For more guidance or advice on this topic please visit https://mojomortgages.com/
About John Fraser-Tucker – Head of Mortgages at Mojo Mortgages
Since joining Mojo Mortgages in October 2022, John has played a pivotal role in strengthening our proposition, enhancing operational efficiency and ultimately helping more customers approach mortgages with confidence. With over 20 years of experience in the financial services sector, he possesses a deep understanding of mortgage products and the unique needs of customers in the UK housing market.