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A Guide to Spousal Maintenance
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A Guide to Spousal Maintenance

Chris Sweetman
Chris Sweetman
Editor at The Divorce Magazine
Director at Fair Result

Sponsored post by Fair Result.

This blog serves as a practical and informative guide to spousal maintenance in divorce settlements. It clarifies what spousal maintenance is, who may be eligible, how payments are determined, and key considerations when negotiating or contesting maintenance. Keep reading to find out more.

What is Spousal Maintenance?

Spousal maintenance, sometimes mistakenly called alimony, is financial support paid by one spouse to the other following a divorce or separation. Its purpose is to provide financial assistance to the lower-income spouse, ensuring they can maintain a standard of living similar to that enjoyed during the marriage. Unlike child maintenance, which is specifically for the support of children, this kind of support focusses on the financial needs of the ex-spouse. It is often seen as support for the partner receiving it as financial assistance to allow them to adjust to single living.

Who Qualifies for Spousal Maintenance?

Eligibility for spousal maintenance depends on several key considerations by the court:

  • Income Disparity: The court examines the difference in income and earning capacity between the spouses.
  • Length of Marriage: Longer marriages are more likely to result in spousal maintenance awards, especially as above where one partner needs time to adjust maybe for example having a period of time to look for work.
  • Childcare Responsibilities: If one spouse is responsible for the care of young children, this may influence the award but must always recognise that this is entirely separate from child maintenance, but it does sometimes get merged by the courts and practitioners.

Each case is unique, and the court’s decision is based on the specific circumstances of the divorcing couple. At Fair Result, we use our experience in divorce financial settlements and negotiating to assist you in this aspect of your overall financial settlement and remember we operate on fixed fee divorce services.

How Payments Are Determined

Several factors influence the determination of spousal maintenance payments:

  • Financial Needs and Resources: The court assesses the financial needs of the lower-income spouse and the resources available to both parties.
  • Standard of Living: The standard of living during the marriage is considered to ensure fairness.
  • Age and Health: The age and health of both spouses can impact the duration and amount of maintenance.

Payments can be structured as either a lump sum referred to as a capitalised lump sum or ongoing periodic payments. The duration of payments varies and may be fixed term or open-ended. However, the consent order would need to allow for extendable spousal maintenance, and this again is where Fair Results negotiating skills would be utilised for you.  It is also necessary to understand capitalised lump sum payments are reduced in financial value as against monthly payments, to reflect the fact the recipient is getting all the spousal maintenance payments in one lump sum. They can then invest this over time or utilise it immediately to help with for example the purchase of a new home.

Common Misconceptions

There are several misconceptions about spousal maintenance that need addressing:

  • Maintenance is Guaranteed: Spousal maintenance is not automatically awarded in every divorce case; it depends on the specific circumstances.
  • Men Never Receive Spousal Support: Although less common, men can and do receive spousal maintenance if they are the lower-income spouse.

Can Spousal Maintenance be Changed or Stopped?

Spousal maintenance arrangements can be reviewed and changed under certain conditions:

  • Reviews and Reductions: Maintenance orders can be reviewed periodically, and changes in financial circumstances can lead to adjustments if the circumstances are deemed necessary and the original order allowed for review at a particular time.
  • Impact of Remarriage or Cohabitation: If the recipient spouse remarries or cohabits with a new partner, maintenance payments may be reduced or stopped.

Negotiation Tips

Successful negotiation requires professional advice and careful planning:

  • Seek expert advice from family law professionals, such as those at Fair Result.
  • Be realistic about financial needs and future earning capacity.
  • Consider the long-term implications of the maintenance arrangement.

Fair Result offers fixed-fee divorce services to help you navigate the complexities of spousal maintenance and achieve a fair financial settlement.

If you need expert advice on financial settlements and spousal maintenance, get in touch with Fair Result. Our fixed-fee services ensure you have the support and guidance you need through your divorce. Visit https://fair-result.co.uk/ for a free no obligation discussion to see how our team can help you negotiate your UK divorce law spousal support.

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About Chris Sweetman

Chris Sweetman is an independent family solicitor and director of Fair Result – An award-winning law office who pride themselves on using innovative ways to help clients through the stress and complications of a marriage breakdown.

Chris can be contacted on 07500933818 or via email chris@fair-result.co.uk.

Child Maintenance and Spousal Maintenance: Understanding the Differences
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Child Maintenance and Spousal Maintenance: Understanding the Differences

Nicki Mitchell
Nicki Mitchell
Partner
Jones Myers Family Law

Sponsored article by Jones Myers Family Law.

In the countdown to the festive season, concerns over finances can understandably escalate – especially for those divorcing and separating who have children but do not have their own income streams.

The aim of this article is to provide key insights into Child Maintenance and Spousal Maintenance.

While they are often believed to be inextricably linked, they are two very distinct issues.

Child Maintenance Support

How do divorcing/separating couples work out Child Maintenance?

Child Maintenance is something which needs to be considered whenever separating couples have children, regardless of whether they were married or not and whatever their financial circumstances.

The Child Maintenance Service (CMS), a stand-alone government body,  provides a formula for parents to calculate child support.

Most separated couples will use the formula as a basis for agreeing the level of child support to be paid and make informal arrangements for this to be paid directly.

Divorcing couples have the option of including their agreement on child support in the order (often known as a consent order) which sets out their agreement as to how their assets, debts, pensions etc will be divided.

Which parent is responsible for paying the support?

The parent with whom the children spend less time will be responsible for paying child support to the other parent.  Where the children’s time and the child care responsibilities are shared equally between the parents then no child support is usually payable.

If there is any dispute between the parents about whether this is the case then the CMS will generally assume the primary carer to be the parent who receives Child Benefit and assess child support accordingly.

For how long does Child Maintenance continue?

The paying parent is obligated to provide child maintenance until the child completes “qualifying education” which is generally full-time secondary education but can include other forms of ongoing study such as some apprenticeships. No child support is payable after the child attains the age of twenty.

What happens if parents cannot agree on the level of support?

If the parents are unable to agree then either one of them can make an application the Child Maintenance Service (CMS) for a calculation.

The CMS will calculate the support payable using a six-step process.

The various stages include determining the paying parent’s yearly gross income. The relevant parent usually provides this. However, the CMS can obtain the information from HM Revenue and Customs (HMRC) if the parents do not supply this.

Factors, such as pensions and school fees, which could change the paying parent’s financial situation, are also assessed before converting the yearly gross income into a weekly figure.

Key criteria the calculator draws on includes the number of children receiving the income and the level of what is called ‘shared care.’ This is based on how much time the child/children of the paying parent spends with them and includes overnight stays.

What happens if the paying parent loses their job?

Either parent can let the CMS know of a change in circumstance. The Agency will then re-evaluate and reduce the level of support the paying parent needs to provide based on the calculator system.

What happens if the paying parent refuses to pay?

The receiving parent can contact the CMS which would then take appropriate enforcement measures such as applying for a court order to take legal action.

What happens if the paying parent dies during the support period?

CMS payments would cease on the death of the paying parent. State benefits, such as Universal Credit, may be available to the surviving parent, depending on their circumstances at the time.

Are there any other options besides the CMS for parents to agree Child Maintenance?   

Agreements between parents can be negotiated with support from experienced family law experts such as Jones Myers.

Our specialist services include mediation, a non-confrontational option for parents to reach a solution in a spirit of co-operation which puts their children’s best interests first.

As a qualified Mediator and Child Inclusive Mediator I regularly see at first hand the  benefits of the mediation process for parents, children and the wider family.

Spousal Maintenance

Divorce does not automatically bring an end to the financial obligations between divorcing and separating couples.

Significant income disparities between spouses may require ongoing financial support to prevent undue hardship, especially when considering the well-being of any children involved.

What is Spousal Maintenance?

Spousal Maintenance is a payment made by one party to the other as part of the financial settlement on their divorce or separation.

Usually, it is paid every month and can last for either a defined period or, in increasingly rare cases, until one of the former spouses dies.

Spousal Maintenance is different from Child Maintenance, which is statutory. It is not an automatic  entitlement and only applies to divorcing couples.

How is the amount and duration agreed?

There is no set formula for working out Spousal Maintenance payments. How much is paid and for how long can be settled through mutual agreement between a spouse and their ex during divorce proceedings.

Information is exchanged about each spouse’s income and their monthly outgoings. If one spouse has insufficient income to meet their needs and the other can afford to make up or contribute to that shortfall then Spousal Maintenance may be appropriate.

Interim Spousal Maintenance can be agreed or ordered in the initial stages of separation to ensure that the spouse who is weaker financially can manage their basic monthly outgoings.

Does getting Spousal Maintenance involve going to Court? 

If the couple are unable to come to a mutual agreement, the Court can decide whether Spousal Maintenance should be paid.

In every case the Court must consider the possibility of a Clean Break Order – which severs all financial ties between the couple.

If a Clean Break Order is not appropriate immediately, the court will order what the Judge considers to be a reasonable level  of Spousal Maintenance – and for how long this must be paid.

The court will have before it detailed information about the income available and each party’s income needs. Spousal Maintenance is usually only ordered for a fixed period of time, long enough to enable an adjustment to independence.

How can couples reach a solution without going to court?  

More couples are turning to non-confrontational options, which allow them to retain control of decisions which affect them, put their children’s best interests first and avoid costly and destructive court battles.

They include negotiation, mediation or collaborative practice where couples and their lawyers commit to find a positive solution without going to court and sign a binding agreement to that effect. Our specialist lawyers at Jones Myers have extensive experience in advising couples in these areas.

In what circumstances is Spousal Maintenance terminated?

When Spousal Maintenance ends will be set out in the court order.  Typically this will be when the spouse receiving the payments has had time to adjust to independence or when their financial needs are reduced. For example, when the children finish school or university, or they leave home.

Spousal Maintenance will cease when one of the spouses dies or if the recipient of the maintenance gets married again or enters into a civil partnership.

What happens if the parties situation changes?   

If the circumstances of the spouses alter significantly after a Spousal Maintenance Order has been made, they can agree to change the payments ordered and send an agreed order to the Court which supersedes the original order.  If agreement is not possible then either of them can apply to the Court to vary the terms of the order.

The Court will consider factors such as changes in income, employment status or financial needs to assess if a variation is appropriate.

For vital areas of law such as Child Maintenance and Spousal Maintenance, I cannot emphasise enough the importance of consulting experienced family lawyers like Jones Myers.

Offering expert legal advice to our clients, we help them to understand their legal position and options.

Providing legal guidance and representation with child maintenance disputes, we support clients to ensure that the child maintenance arrangements are fair and reasonable.

Our approach prioritises resolving disputes in a non-confrontational manner, allowing us to assist couples in reaching voluntary agreements for child maintenance.

We can also assist in negotiating Spousal Maintenance agreements to reach a fair and mutually acceptable solution. If an agreement cannot be reached through negotiation, we can represent clients in court proceedings to seek a Spousal Maintenance Order or to vary an existing order.

Read more articles by Nicki Mitchell.

About Nicki Mitchell

With three decades experience in family law, Nicki specialises in the financial aspects of relationship breakdown – and particularly complex cases involving family businesses, multiple properties, and complicated pension arrangements.

A skilled mediator, child inclusive mediator and collaborative family lawyer Nicki champions Alternative Dispute Resolution processes which avoid a lengthy court process and can lead much more quickly and cost effectively to a successful resolution.

Her exceptional track record also includes advising clients on the more traditional methods of resolving issues surrounding family breakdowns. Direct Dial: 01904 202553 or email  Nicki.mitchell@jonesmyers.co.uk  www.jonesmyers.co.uk

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Your entitlement to spousal maintenance

Davina-Warrington
Davina Warrington
Divorce and Family Law Solicitor
Woolley & Co Solicitors

Understanding your entitlement to spousal maintenance following a separation is a significant concern for many. This form of financial support, distinct from child maintenance, is available only to those who were married and aims to provide financial assistance from one spouse to another upon the dissolution of their marriage. The necessity for spousal maintenance arises from various factors, including the length of the marriage, the employment status of each party, ages, childcare responsibilities, and the financial independence of both parties.

Spousal maintenance, also referred to as spousal support, is not a one-size-fits-all solution but rather depends on the unique circumstances of each marriage. A typical scenario might involve one spouse sacrificing career opportunities to manage household duties, thereby becoming financially dependent on the other, who is the primary income earner. In such cases, the non-working spouse may be entitled to financial support if they cannot sustain themselves with their own income or assets.

To determine if you are eligible for spousal maintenance, consider your financial needs against your potential income, the sacrifices made during the marriage such as career opportunities for homemaking, your age and its impact on your earning capacity, and the possibility of a financial clean break versus ongoing maintenance. Additionally, the willingness to pursue legal action, the implications of remarrying on maintenance entitlement, and the advisability of consulting with a divorce and family lawyer to assess your case are crucial considerations.

Applying for spousal maintenance typically involves negotiation or mediation, leading to an informal agreement that minimises legal costs and conflict. However, if an agreement cannot be reached, court intervention may be necessary to decide on the entitlement and amount of maintenance.

The payment of spousal maintenance can be structured in several ways: a lump sum payment, ongoing monthly payments, or a combination of both, tailored to the recipient’s needs and the payer’s ability to pay. The choice of payment method should be informed by expert legal advice to ensure it suits your specific circumstances.

In England and Wales, the calculation of spousal maintenance is not governed by a fixed formula but is determined on a case-by-case basis, taking into account each spouse’s financial resources and the reasonable needs of the requesting spouse. The duration of spousal maintenance can be indefinite or for a fixed term, often influenced by the length of the marriage and the agreement reached by the parties, with the understanding that remarriage of the recipient spouse terminates the maintenance entitlement.

At Woolley & Co, Solicitors, we offer specialised legal advice to ensure you secure the most beneficial spousal maintenance arrangement. Our approach is tailored to your unique situation. To explore your options and understand your entitlements more thoroughly, consider a free 30-minute consultation with one of our expert family law solicitors. Contact us at 0800 321 3832 or visit our website at www.family-lawfirm.co.uk for more information.

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Davina Warrington

Woolley & Co’s Burton upon Trent-based family solicitor, Davina, specialises in divorce, financial settlements and family law. Davina has always lived, studied and worked locally and deals mainly with clients in Derbyshire, Staffordshire and the wider East Midlands area.

Davina qualified as a solicitor in August 2005 and joined Woolley & Co in 2006 from a firm in Burton on Trent.

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Mills v Mills spousal maintenance decision

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Stacey Nevin
Stacey Nevin
Associate in the Family & Divorce Law team at Kingsley Napley LLP.

Spousal maintenance is a thorny topic.

Traditionally English law has recognised the concept of maintenance for life on divorce, with the breadwinner (male or female) expected to support the financially weaker party.

Recently however there have been a slew of cases suggesting this principle is falling out of favour and in practice there are often moves by the financially stronger party to achieve a clean break divorce if possible, or to limit the scope of maintenance payments rather than sign-up to open ended awards.

That is why all eyes were on the conclusion of the long running Mills v Mills saga this week which went all the way to the Supreme Court.

The Supreme Court had been asked to consider whether the court was entitled to decline to increase Mrs Mills’ maintenance payments to fund payment of all or some of her rent when her housing needs had been catered for in the original divorce proceedings.

Mr and Mrs Mills separated in 2000 after 13 years of marriage, divorcing in 2002.  At the time of their divorce it was agreed that their now adult son would continue to make his home with Mrs Mills.

The parties reached agreement on the financial claims between them, with Mrs Mills taking a total of £230,000 of the net equity of the family home (approximately 91%) and receiving maintenance payments of £13,200 per year.  The husband kept the parties’ shares in their surveying companies and £23,000 of cash from the sale of the family home.

Mrs Mills’ maintenance award did not include provision for rent, as it was anticipated she would use her capital award to purchase a mortgage free property.

Even though it was accepted by both that she had no ability to raise a mortgage, nevertheless later in 2002 Mrs Mills purchased a house for £345,000, raising the balance on mortgage.

What then followed was a series of property transactions where Mrs Mills “committed herself to borrowings which were too high”.  

These are neatly summarised in the Supreme Court’s judgment, but ultimately the result was that by the time Mr Mills applied to court to stop maintenance payments in 2015, Mrs Mills was living in rental accommodation, had no capital and debts totalling £42,000.

Mrs Mills cross applied, seeking an increase to her maintenance award, as she now had rental costs which had not been factored into the original award.

The decision of the first court saw the order remain at the rate of £13,200 per year with both parties’ applications failing. Both appealed, and in the Court of Appeal, Mrs Mills successfully argued to increase her maintenance to £17,292 per year, which included her shortfall in her rental payments.

Whilst Mr Mills was not permitted to appeal the decision that he should continue paying maintenance, he was given permission to appeal the decision to increase the maintenance award to cover the shortfall.  The Supreme Court allowed his appeal and effectively restored the maintenance to the 2002 amount.

The judgment makes clear that Mrs Mills’ housing needs had been catered for within the original capital award given to her in 2002 and that Mr Mills should not be expected to bear the consequences of his ex-wife’s poor financial decisions over the last 16 years.

Whilst these cases remain fact specific and the Mills v Mills decision does not totally bar future claims being made due to the court’s wide discretion, it does give us a strong indication of the law in this area.

Spouses seeking to increase their maintenance award to meet a need that was already catered for with a capital award face a tough test. Even though it was accepted that Mr Mills could afford to pay at the higher level and that Mrs Mills had a greater need, it was not considered fair that he should meet this greater need.

The question of fairness will play a key role in future cases looking at this point.

What paying parties may find disappointing about this case is that Mr Mills remains obliged to pay his ex-wife maintenance, even at the original level.  Mr Mills has now been paying maintenance for 16 years, three years longer than the parties were married and living together.

The question of how long maintenance should be paid remains unanswered and fact specific.  No doubt, the Mills v Mills case will be an incentive to those wanting to push for further change in the area of spousal maintenance. Many argue that a lifelong maintenance payment obligation is outdated and patriarchal and that the law should support financial independence between divorced couples.

For the moment the message is clear: whilst Mrs Mills is not required to move to full financial independence from her ex-husband, she must now meet her increased housing costs herself and cannot look to her ex-husband to meet her needs generated by the choices she has made; responsibility for these choices rests solely with her.

About Stacey Nevin

Stacey Nevin, an associate in the Family & Divorce Law team at Kingsley Napley LLP. She works on cases involving all aspects of family law including maintenance cases, private children cases and relocation cases.

The Clean Break and Spousal Maintenance

Katie McCann  Head of Family Law and in-house counsel at Kuits Solicitors
Katie McCann
Head of Family Law and in-house counsel at Kuits Solicitors

Divorce (Financial Provisions) Bill received its second reading in the House of Lords in June 2014.

One objective of the Bill, which was introduced by Baroness Deech, is to limit maintenance payments to three years by making changes to the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973.

Currently there is no such cap in place and Judges are free to make Joint Lives Maintenance Orders under which one ex-spouse must make periodical payments to the other for the whole of their lives (save certain defined terminating factors).

The logic behind the current law was explained by Lord Nicholls in White v White, where he stated, “There should be no bias in favour of the money earner and against the home-maker and the child carer.” [1]

During a marriage a couple may often decide that one spouse should give up their career in order to look after the home and family and therefore it is arguably unjust to prejudice them upon divorce by limiting their maintenance.

Baroness Deech however feels that the law is outdated in the sense that it is still attempting to put women in the position they would have been in had the marriage not ended. She believes that the primary aim of maintenance should be rehabilitative as opposed to permanent.

Across the pond it seems that the courts are taking a similar approach to Baroness Deech as they appear to be moving away from “permanent alimony”- the American equivalent of joint life maintenance.

American family lawyer Morghan Richardson explains that judges in the US often have little sympathy for women who have given up their jobs to care for their children- especially when these judges are women themselves, who have placed their own children in child care in order to enable them to progress their careers.[2]

There are certainly risks attached to the removal of joint lives maintenance orders.

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It is arguably unjust to prejudice them upon divorce by limiting their maintenance.

Spouses who are happily married may be reluctant to become stay at home parents or home-makers in fear that having given up their careers they will not receive adequate maintenance in the event that they divorce.

Worse still, dependant spouses may feel that they have no choice but to stay in unhappy marriages due to the fear that they would not be able to support themselves if they divorce. There is also the possibility for children of the marriage who live with the supported ex-spouse to suffer as a result of maintenance payments being terminated.

Despite the potential consequences listed above it is clear that the law as it stands is arguably unjust to the bread winning ex-spouse. The objective when dealing with financial distribution upon divorce is to ensure that a fair outcome is achieved.

Commenting on this objective Baroness Hale explained that, “a fair division is an attempt to give each party an equal start on the road to independent living.”[3] There is certainly nothing “independent” about joint-lives maintenance.

There also exists the potential for the home-maker to abuse their position. This is due to the fact that an arrangement that may have been suitable whilst a couple were married is often no longer appropriate once the marriage has terminated.

Yet the law does not seem to acknowledge this and countless cases have been reported where home-makers have received joint life maintenance orders by citing that they are unable to get a job based on the fact that they did not work during the marriage and do not possess the necessary skills.

Not only does the current law seem to be fundamentally unfair to the payer whose future plans can be stymied by this type of order but it also seems to do a disservice to the payee. Whilst joint life maintenance may seem appealing surely there is nothing more empowering than working hard to become financially independent.

It is entirely understandable for an ex-spouse who did not have a career during their marriage to be apprehensive about entering the job market. Of course it would be inequitable to cut off a dependent ex-spouse immediately without allowing for a period of adjustment and Baroness Deech acknowledges this with her suggested allowance of a 3 year maintenance period. During this time a dependent ex-spouse would be able to prepare themselves to enter the working world so that they can eventually become financially independent.

Instead of concentrating on building a case why one should be entitled to joint life maintenance perhaps it would be more productive for dependent ex-spouses to request monies that could be used to fund further education or skills training so that they are more confident and equipped to enter the job market.

Commenting on Baroness Deech’s proposals Katie McCann, Head of Family at Kuits states, “The principle behind the proposals seems to be a shift towards a more pragmatic, sensible and fair viewpoint on maintenance. As long as there are sufficient checks and balances in place to ensure that no-one is left in a precarious financial position and certainly no children and prejudiced. After all, there has to be life after divorce and that principle should apply to both parties.”

Katie McCann is head of family law and in-house counsel at Kuits Solicitors in Manchester City Centre. She has a special interest in resolving high value relationship breakdown disputes. 

 

[1] [2000] 2FLR 891

[2] http://www.forbes.com/sites/emmajohnson/2014/10/27/are-you-a-stay-at-home-mom-facing-divorce-dont-expect-alimony/

[3] Miller; McFarlane [2006] 2 FCR 213 at Para 144

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Divorcing? Reach a Financial Agreement for the Best Outcome

Zarira Love
Zarira Love
Writer / Researcher
Custody X Change

Agreeing isn’t easy when you’ve split, but it has many advantages.

Financial agreements spare you the slog of a drawn-out divorce process, helping you save money and many headaches.

What is a divorce financial agreement?

A divorce financial agreement covers, in writing, how spouses who are ending their marriage will divide:

  • Property
  • Pensions
  • Savings
  • Investments

Agreements may also address spousal maintenance, stating the amount and how long it is to be paid.

To make an agreement legally binding, you must apply for a consent order.

To make sure your spouse can’t pursue you for more money, you can get a clean break order. This severs all financial ties between you and your spouse, and makes it so neither of you can hassle each other for money later on.

What is a child maintenance agreement?

If you have children, you might also agree on child maintenance.

A child maintenance agreement covers:

  • Who pays maintenance
  • How much they will pay
  • How often it’s paid
  • The payment method

It could be a standalone agreement or part of your agreed parenting plan.

Convincing your spouse to negotiate

If there are hard feelings between you and your spouse, you won’t be too eager to sit down at the negotiating table. Set aside your differences and focus on the positives of agreeing.

Get a faster resolution

If you litigate, the court’s calendar will dictate the pace of your case.

Agreeing means you can resolve things on your own time — and you’ll usually get an order sooner.

Even if you don’t reach a full divorce settlement, your case will still go quicker since you already addressed finances.

Save money

It’s common for spouses to rack up several thousand pounds in solicitor and other fees. Long, drawn out cases can even reach six figures.

Exact costs vary case by case, but alternate methods of dispute resolution are much cheaper than litigation.

  • Direct negotiations: You’ll sit down with your spouse and work out your financial agreements. Essentially, you don’t have to pay anything for the negotiations.
  • Negotiations with a solicitor: A solicitor provides guidance as you work out your agreement. They will also put your agreement in writing. Costs are generally around £3,000.
  • Mediation: A neutral third party will help you and your spouse find common ground so you can agree. On average, mediators charge about £100 to £300 per hour. If your financial situation is simple, the entire process could be less than £1,000.

You’ll save even more by splitting costs with your spouse.

Control the outcome

You and your spouse will have the final say on your financial arrangements. You can customise your agreement to suit your unique needs.

For example, instead of setting a specific amount of child maintenance, you can state the parent will pay for certain expenses, like the child’s schooling.

Preserve decorum

Trials are contentious. If you didn’t already have a fraught relationship, going to court could give you a negative opinion of your spouse.

Negotiating shows grace and a willingness to move on. This is essential if you have children. Agreeing on financials will let you practise compromise which might make it easier to collaborate on decisions related to your child.

Preparing for negotiations

Spouses must disclose all financial assets and liabilities.

You might need to consult an expert to get an accurate portrait of your finances. For example:

  • An estate agent or a chartered surveyor to determine property value
  • A forensic accountant to assess the value of a business
  • An actuary for a report on pension funds

It’s possible to split the costs for these services with your spouse.

Create a written proposal to show your spouse what you believe is fair to help move negotiations along.

Once you’ve agreed, you’ll file your agreement with the court.

Your court-approved agreement goes into effect immediately. You’ll have the peace of mind that the financial parts of your divorce are settled.

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About Zarira Love

Zarira Love has been researching and writing articles about child custody and parenting for nearly six years. She currently resides in New York City.

Zarira is a Writer / Researcher for Custody X Change.

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Breaking Up is Hard to Do: Separation, Finances and Children for LGBTQ+ Families
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Breaking Up is Hard to Do: Separation, Finances and Children for LGBTQ+ Families

Joe Ferguson
Joe Ferguson
Family Law Solicitor
Myerson Solicitors

The end of a relationship is never easy, but for LGBTQ+ couples, navigating the legal and emotional aspects of separation can come with distinct challenges. For LGBTQ+ families knowing your rights is vital – particularly if your family has been formed through surrogacy, adoption or other routes that can carry additional legal considerations.

In this article, we explore how separation works for same-sex and LGBTQ+ couples, how financial matters are resolved, and what options are available when children are involved.

Ending the relationship: divorce and civil partnership dissolution

LGBTQ+ couples have had the legal right to marry since 2013 in England and Wales, and civil partnerships continue to be recognised. Both marriage and civil partnerships can be formally ended through the family court – divorce or dissolution, respectively – and the process is now based on a no-fault system. This means that neither party needs to prove wrongdoing for the legal process to begin.

Whether it is a divorce or a dissolution the procedure is the same: an initial application, followed by a conditional order, and finally, a final order to formally end the marriage or civil partnership.

But while the legal framework is the same for all couples, LGBTQ+ individuals may face different questions when it comes to resolving finances and parenting arrangements, particularly when their relationship pre-dated legal recognition.

Financial matters: reaching a fair outcome

Financial settlements can be one of the most emotive and difficult topics to brooch following separation. Like opposite-sex couples, same-sex spouses and civil partners are entitled to a full range of financial remedies. These can include:

  • Lump sum payments
  • Spousal maintenance
  • Property transfers or sales
  • Pension orders
  • A clean break, ending future financial ties

The court will assess the financial resources, needs and contributions of each party amongst other factors, and aims to reach an outcome that is fair and meets the needs of the parties and any children involved.

However, there can be added complexity when considering assets that were acquired before marriage – especially for couples who lived together for many years. Determining whether these assets are “marital” or “non-marital” can become a key issue, particularly where significant property, pensions or savings are involved. Cohabitation alone does not automatically give rise to legal rights, though it is typically taken into account that any period of seamless cohabitation prior to the date of the marriage or civil partnership when determining the length of the marriage. Accordingly, timelines and clear evidence of cohabitation is often required. It should be noted of course that many LGBTQ+ couples were unable to enter into marriage or civil partnership previously owing to the lack of provision within the law for them. Accordingly, these arguments can be important as evidence of the enduring relationship between the parties. 

Children: supporting parenthood in all its forms

For LGBTQ+ families, parenting often involves a range of routes – from adoption and surrogacy to donor conception. These arrangements can create additional legal considerations during a separation.

The starting point is to establish parental responsibility: the legal authority to make decisions about a child’s health, education, and welfare. Biological and adoptive parents usually have parental responsibility automatically, but others (such as non-birth parents in a surrogacy arrangement) may need to apply for parental orders, declarations of parentage or child arrangements orders. 

If both parents are legally recognised, they may choose to agree parenting arrangements voluntarily. Options include:

  • Mediation: This process can help couples reach agreement on how children will be cared for, where they will live, and how contact will work. Mediation is not legally binding but can lead to a more amicable, cost-effective solution.
  • Collaborative law: This process enables separating couples to work together with trained professionals to resolve disputes without going to court. Everyone agrees to work together as a team to resolve disputes without going to court. 
  • Negotiation: working with solicitors, with the benefit of independent legal advice, to work out what would be best for their family, avoiding costly and potentially acrimonious court proceedings.

If agreement cannot be reached, the family court can make a Child Arrangement Order which is legally binding and sets out the child’s living and contact arrangements. The court’s priority is always the child’s welfare.

Planning ahead for a smoother separation

While the legal system provides equality on paper, LGBTQ+ families may still encounter unique issues when relationships end. The reality is that the law in this area is continues to evolve but has not caught up to the social realities of life as an LGBTQ+ person and the unique family dynamics which are increasingly commonplace. The key to navigating these challenges is early advice and a tailored, bespoke approach that reflects the structure of your family, the history of your relationship, and the complexities involved.

If you are an LGBTQ+ individual facing the challenges associated with separation and need assistance, the team at Myerson Solicitors are here to support you with clarity, empathy and practical expertise.

Read more articles by Myerson Solicitors.

About Joe Ferguson

Joe Ferguson is a solicitor in the Family Law team at Myerson Solicitors. He specialises in divorce, financial remedy proceedings, and complex children matters, with particular expertise in supporting LGBTQ+ clients through family law issues with sensitivity and pragmatism.

Common Financial Mistakes to Avoid During and After Divorce
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Common Financial Mistakes to Avoid During and After Divorce

Nicki Mitchell
Nicki Mitchell
Partner
Jones Myers

Sponsored post by Jones Myers.

The fear of starting all over again and all the financial worry that can bring with it can understandably have a profound effect on many people going through divorce or separation.

This fear can be particularly acute for those who have not had to deal with financial practicalities such as tax, standing orders and direct debits during their relationship.

If you are going through divorce or contemplating it and are concerned about future finances, this article will help to keep you on the right financial track throughout your divorce and beyond.

Be Open and Honest

Not sharing financial information during a relationship can contribute to problems during divorce proceedings.

One spouse may have no idea where the budget line is – or even where it should be drawn – and may have unrealistic expectations of what they are entitled to, or what is a realistic and affordable.

One spouse may have hidden savings or income from the other or scrutinised the other’s spending without being transparent about their own. On divorce, there is nowhere to hide. It is fundamental that both spouses fully and frankly disclose everything they have to each other as a starting point for an informed negotiation.

The Importance of Financial Disclosure

In every divorce, separating couples must provide to the other full details of their assets, income, pension and liabilities.   This is known as financial disclosure.

Financial disclosure ensures that both spouses can make fully informed decisions about what they consider to be a fair settlement. A failure to disclose anything material to the settlement can in some cases lead to an agreement being set aside. Lawyers and judges know every trick in the book and will ask questions if they suspect that money has been concealed. They may even employ forensic accountants to track down missing assets.

Don’t be tempted to hide money in offshore banks. These still have to be disclosed.  If you do not provide everything that is necessary to understand the financial position, family courts have the power to question your accountant, your financial advisor and even your bank manager.

Setting up a new business shortly before separation may well be seen as suspicious or even a deliberate attempt to hide assets.  Taking steps designed to put money beyond the reach of your spouse could lead to injunctions being made against you, freezing assets, or ordering the return of monies from third parties.  In the long run, actions such as these are highly unlikely to succeed and will almost certainly damage your credibility in the eyes of the court.

The Penalties of Concealing Assets

If it later comes to light that you have withheld material financial information during the financial disclosure process, your spouse might be able to ask the court to set aside the Financial Consent Order and relook at what would be a fair order – taking into account all the assets, including those not previously disclosed.

The court can also make an order that you pay your ex’s legal costs. In the worst-case scenario, deliberately withholding financial information in breach of a court order can amount to a contempt of court for which a range of penalties (including ultimately imprisonment) could be imposed.

Include Pensions in Financial Settlements

Frequently overlooked in financial settlements, pensions are frequently one of the most valuable assets of a marriage. They often make up the second highest- value asset in a divorce settlement after the family home – or sometimes the highest.

It is key that information about pensions is made available in the financial disclosure process which must include details of all pensions, including state pensions – and the value of each one.

The most common way in which a disparity in pensions is addressed in a divorce settlement is pension sharing.  Pension sharing splits the pensions immediately and provides a clean break

As an alternative, in some cases ex-spouses prefer to take a greater share of the equity in the family home or other capital, as a trade-off for a share of the other’s pension.

Some divorces may involve several pension arrangements so it is important to consider which arrangements should be shared, and to what extent.  Pensions are complex and, save in very straightforward cases with pensions of limited value, it is important to get specialist advice about them before agreeing a settlement.

The pension share may be internal (when the recipient becomes a member of the scheme) or external when the share must be invested in an existing or new arrangement of the receiving party. Care should be taken to obtain details of the cost of any transfer.

In deciding what is best for them, the couple need to consider how their respective financial needs will be met and what other assets are available for distribution.

Consider Financial Planning

It can be helpful to have financial advice during settlement negotiations.  Many financial advisers use cashflow modelling, which can be a valuable way of how different settlement options might pan out in the future. In processes such as collaborative practice or mediation, it is quite common to bring a financial adviser into the process as a neutral to help the discussions.  Further financial advice can then be taken on an individual basis when settlement terms are clear.

Get a formal Financial Order

Once a financial settlement is agreed, it is almost always best for the terms agreed to be made final and binding in a court order. This is a legally binding document which details the main assets owned by divorcing couples and sets out the financial arrangements agreed between them. The terms of an order are binding and can be enforced through the courts if there are any problems putting those terms into effect.

It is important to understand that the divorce process itself does not dismiss financial claims which  can be pursued many years after the divorce has been finalised provided the person bringing the application has not remarried. Putting off the conversation at the time of separation can sometimes just be kicking the can down the road.

Try to avoid exceeding your budget

I am not a financial adviser, but these are some pointers which might be useful to think about:

  1. Create a ‘to do’ list of all things financial (bills etc) and an aspirational list to set goals for enjoyable things such as treats and breaks
  2. Consider having two bank accounts – one for day-to-day expenses for the house, food, car and associated expenses, direct debits, standing orders and credit card payment. The second is for setting aside some savings for exceptional expenses such non-essential clothing, holidays, and house repairs.
  3. Set out the absolute and exact payments needed every month for your house and family
  4. Know when your maintenance payments arrive and budget accordingly. Ensure standing orders don’t go out before your monthly payments are due in
  5. Apply to your Council for a 25% council tax discount. The concession applies if you are on your own or have younger children
  6. Expand your support network if you’re on your own or have children. Now is an ideal time as the country emerges from lockdown
  7. Take professional advice on preparing and budgeting for your own retirement
  8. Make a will. If you have a pension or life assurance, ensure it includes your chosen beneficiaries and is updated. Review it every few years.
  9. Stay healthy in body and spirit – try new things. You could also consider engaging a life or Divorce coach who specialises in helping people in your situation prepare for their new future

Spousal Maintenance and Child Maintenance

Remember that Spousal Maintenance will usually be paid for a period of time to enable you to adjust to financial independence or when your financial needs are reduced, for example, when your children finish school or university, or leave home.

Be aware that your spousal maintenance will stop if you remarry or enter into a civil partnership or if either of you dies. It could also be affected if you meet a new partner and move in together

It is also important to plan for when child maintenance – which is mandatory for both parents for children under sixteen and youngsters under twenty who are still in full time education – comes to an end.

As part of our holistic approach, Jones Myers advises and guides our clients through the stages of divorce during and after their divorce.

A champion of non-confrontational divorce and resolving issues in a spirit of collaboration and cooperation, our extensive expertise includes alternative to avoid courts which include mediation and collaborative family law.

Our pre-divorce and post- divorce support includes helping them to stay on the right financial track as they embark on the next chapter of their lives.

Read more articles by Nicki Mitchell.

About Nicki Mitchell

With extensive experience in family law, Nicki specialises in the financial aspects of relationship breakdown – and particularly complex cases involving family businesses, multiple properties, and complicated pension arrangements.

A skilled Mediator, Child Inclusive Mediator and Collaborative Family Lawyer, Nicki champions Alternative Dispute Resolution processes which avoid a lengthy court process and can lead much more quickly and cost effectively to a successful resolution.

Her exceptional track record also includes advising clients on the more traditional methods of resolving issues surrounding family breakdowns.

Direct Dial: 01904 202553 or email  Nicki.mitchell@jonesmyers.co.uk. Website: www.jonesmyers.co.uk

Financial Claims for Stay-at-Home Parents Upon Divorce: What You Need to Know
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Financial Claims for Stay-at-Home Parents Upon Divorce: What You Need to Know

Stephanie Kyriacou
Stephanie Kyriacou
Managing Associate
Freeths

When a marriage breaks down, financial settlements can be particularly complex where one spouse has sacrificed their career to raise children. In England and Wales, the law recognises this contribution and provides a framework for fair financial division under the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973. This contrasts sharply with the legal position of unmarried cohabitees, who have far fewer rights.

Cohabiting couples in Britain account for nearly 1 in 5 families and are the fastest growing family type – with almost 3.6 million opposite-sex cohabiting couple families. Despite this, when a cohabiting couple’s relationship breaks down, the law treats them as though they were two completely unconnected individuals with no basic legal protections.

Financial Claims Under the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973

A stay-at-home parent who has put their career on hold for the benefit of the family may be entitled to substantial financial relief upon divorce. Under the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973, the court has wide discretion to ensure a fair division of assets and income, taking into account factors such as:

  • The needs and resources of both parties – this includes income, earning capacity, property, and financial obligations. A parent who has been out of work for many years may struggle to re-enter the workforce at the same earning level as before.
  • Contributions to the marriage – non-financial contributions, such as childcare and homemaking, are valued equally to financial contributions. The court acknowledges that raising children is a crucial role that has economic value.
  • The welfare of any children under 18 – ensuring financial stability for children is a priority, often influencing maintenance and housing arrangements.

Types of Financial Orders Available

A stay-at-home parent may apply for various financial orders, including:

  1. Spousal Maintenance – A regular payment from the financially stronger spouse to help the stay-at-home parent meet their needs, especially if they cannot immediately become financially independent. This may be for a fixed term or, in some limited cases, for joint lives.
  2. Lump Sum Payments – A one-off capital payment to balance the division of assets.
  3. Property Adjustment Orders – The court may transfer or adjust ownership of the family home, sometimes allowing the primary caregiver to remain there until the children are older/finish their secondary education.
  4. Pension Sharing Orders – Stay-at-home parents may claim a share of their spouse’s pension to provide for their long-term financial security.

Key Differences: Married vs. Cohabiting Parents

While married stay-at-home parents have various legal rights upon divorce, cohabiting partners have no automatic financial claims against each other upon separation, regardless of how long they lived together or whether they raised children together. The law does not recognise “common-law marriage.” Instead:

  • A cohabiting parent can claim child maintenance from the other parent, calculated under the Child Maintenance Service (CMS) formula.
  • They have no right to spousal maintenance or a share of their partner’s assets unless they can prove ownership through property law principles, such as trust claims.
  • Cohabitees cannot claim a share of their ex-partner’s pension.

A co-habitee may have recourse to make claims under Schedule 1 of the Children Act 1989, but these financial claims are solely for the benefit of any children of the family and not for themselves.

Conclusion

For stay-at-home parents, the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973 provides vital financial protections upon divorce, recognising the economic sacrifices made in raising children. In contrast, unmarried cohabitees face significant financial vulnerability, with limited legal remedies available.

  • Under current law, it is possible to live with someone for decades and have children together, but then simply walk away with the economically stronger party taking no financial responsibility for a former partner when the relationship breaks down.

The current Government have committed to legislation to better protect cohabitees, however, as yet, there is no date for when this new legislation may come into effect.

About Stephanie Kyriacou

Stephanie Kyriacou is a Managing Associate in Freeths Family team and is based in the East Midlands. Stephanie is a highly experienced specialist family lawyer whose work includes divorce, middle to high net worth (HNW) financial matters, private children law matters, cohabitation disputes, Schedule 1 claims and pre and post nuptial agreements. Stephanie is on the board for the Leicestershire Resolution Committee and is committed to the Code of Practice which promotes a constructive approach to resolving family issues that considers the needs of the whole family.

A link to her profile can be found here: Stephanie Kyriacou | Family Law | Leicester | Freeths

5 Common Myths About Financial Settlements in Divorce
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5 Common Myths About Financial Settlements in Divorce

Chris Sweetman
Chris Sweetman
Editor at The Divorce Magazine
Director at Fair Result

Sponsored post by Fair Result.

Financial settlements in divorce refer to the process by which a couple’s joint assets and finances are divided upon the dissolution of their marriage. This often complex and emotionally charged process aims to ensure that both parties receive a fair share of the marital assets. However, numerous divorce myths and misconceptions surrounding financial settlements can lead to misunderstandings and unrealistic expectations.

Believing these myths can be risky and may result in unfavourable outcomes. Therefore, it is crucial to separate fact from fiction to navigate the financial aspects of divorce more effectively. More importantly contact a specialist lawyer or financial accountant at Fair Result who will advise you the best ways to deal with financial separation on divorce.

Myths to Debunk

Myth 1: “Everything is split 50/50 in a divorce”

A common misconception is that marital assets are automatically divided equally between spouses in a divorce. The division of assets is based on what is deemed fair and just, which does not necessarily mean a 50/50 split. Courts consider various factors, such as the length of the marriage, each spouse’s financial contributions, future earning potential, and the needs of any children involved. The goal is to achieve an equitable distribution, which may result in one party receiving a larger share of the assets. The courts will also often look at spousal maintenance. There has long been a misconception that spousal maintenance will always be paid. This spousal maintenance misconception is wrong and maintenance will only be paid for as long as it is necessary to allow the party receiving it to adjust to single living again.

Myth 2: “The higher-earning spouse always pays spousal maintenance”

Another prevalent myth is that the spouse who earns more money will always be required to pay spousal maintenance to the lower-earning spouse. While the higher-earning spouse may be ordered to provide financial support, this is not a given. Courts consider multiple factors when determining maintenance, including the length of the marriage, the standard of living during the marriage, and each spouse’s financial resources and needs. In some cases, no maintenance may be awarded if both parties are deemed capable of supporting themselves.

Myth 3: “You can hide assets to avoid sharing them”

Some individuals believe they can conceal assets to prevent them from being included in the financial settlement. However, this is both illegal and unethical. Courts require full financial disclosure from both parties at the outset on a disclosure form known as Form E, and failure to disclose all assets can result in severe legal consequences. Methods of hiding assets, such as transferring money to friends or family or undervaluing property, are likely to be uncovered during this process. If hidden assets are discovered, the court may impose penalties, and the guilty party could face criminal charges.

Myth 4: “The parent with custody gets the house”

It is often assumed that the parent who receives primary custody of the children will automatically be awarded the family home. While the needs of the children are a significant consideration, the decision to award the house is based on various factors. Courts will evaluate each party’s financial situation, the ability to maintain the home, and the best interests of the children. In some cases, the house may be sold, and the proceeds divided, or the custodial parent may be allowed to stay in the home until the children reach a certain age. This is known as a Mescher Order, and you will need advice from a lawyer to obtain this as property division in divorce is complex to ensure each parties needs are met with the courts first priority being to ensure the children of the marriage are safely housed.

Myth 5: “You need to go to court to finalise a settlement”

Many people believe that financial settlements can only be resolved through a court process. However, there are alternative methods to resolve financial disputes that can be less stressful and more cost-effective. Mediation and collaborative divorce are two popular alternatives where both parties work together with the help of a neutral third party to reach an agreement. These methods allow for more control over the outcome and can often result in a quicker and more amicable resolution. However, even if mediators are used you will still need to get a lawyer to draft the financial consent order for approval by the court.  if you use a mediator that is not a qualified lawyer you will still need the lawyer to submit the consent order and supporting documentation to the government portal for approval by a judge. You do not need to attend court for this. The online process will deal with this for you.

Addressing Common Questions

What are the most common misconceptions people have about financial settlements?

The divorce myths mentioned above are among the most common misconceptions in financial disclosure on divorce. Additionally, people may believe that only marital assets are subject to division (when, in fact, non-marital assets can sometimes be considered) or that prenuptial agreements are always upheld without question.

How do courts determine a fair settlement?

Courts determine a fair settlement by considering several factors, including the length of the marriage, each spouse’s contributions, both financial and non-financial, the standard of living during the marriage, and the future financial needs and earning potential of each spouse. The primary goal is to ensure that both parties can maintain a reasonable standard of living post-divorce.

What legal requirements are involved in disclosing assets?

Both parties are legally required to provide full and frank disclosure of all assets, liabilities, income, and expenses. This information is typically exchanged through financial statements Form E and supporting documentation including payslips bank statements and details of properties you feel would be suitable for your post-divorce settlement. Failure to disclose assets can lead to serious legal repercussions, including fines, penalties, or having the settlement overturned. Fair Result can help you complete all this paperwork

Are there alternatives to court for resolving financial disputes?

Yes, alternatives to court include mediation, collaborative divorce, and arbitration. These methods involve working with neutral third parties to reach an agreement outside of the traditional court setting. They can be less adversarial and more efficient, allowing couples to maintain greater control over the outcome.

What are the consequences of believing or acting on these myths?

Believing or acting on divorce myths about financial settlements can lead to unrealistic expectations, prolonged disputes, and unfavourable outcomes. Misconceptions can result in unnecessary stress, increased legal costs, and potential legal penalties for unethical behaviour such as hiding assets which could ultimately lead to prison. It is always best to have all your divorce myths dispelled and get legal advice about the best way to proceed from one of the team at Fair Result.

Conclusion

Understanding the realities of financial settlements in divorce is crucial for making informed decisions and achieving a fair outcome. By debunking common myths, individuals can better navigate the complexities of divorce and avoid common pitfalls. For expert advice and guidance, readers are encouraged to contact Fair Result or use our WhatsApp service. Each client receives their own WhatsApp group where they can ask questions of the team at Fair Result anytime if they have questions or concerns over their case.  Navigating divorce with accurate information and professional support can make a significant difference in achieving a fair and amicable resolution.

Get in Touch

Call us at 07 500 933 818 or 0333 577 7009

Email peter@fair-result.co.uk or chris@fair-result.co.uk

Read more articles by Chris Sweetman.

About Chris Sweetman

Chris Sweetman is an independent family solicitor and director of Fair Result – An award-winning law office who pride themselves on using innovative ways to help clients through the stress and complications of a marriage breakdown.

Chris can be contacted on 07500933818 or via email chris@fair-result.co.uk.

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What Happens to Your Finances in Divorce? Key Factors to Consider

 

Peter Marples
Peter Marples
Editor at The Divorce Magazine
Director at Fair Result

Sponsored post by Fair Result.

Divorce is a complex and emotionally challenging experience, and it’s often accompanied by a range of financial implications. As you navigate the divorce process, understanding what will happen to your finances can make a significant difference in protecting your future. In this guide, we’ll cover the essential financial aspects of divorce, including financial settlements, consent orders, mediation, and how the divorce proceedings impact your financial outlook.

Understanding Financial Settlements

A financial consent settlement is an agreement between you and your former spouse on how to divide your financial assets after the marriage is dissolved. This settlement typically includes assets such as property, savings, investments, pensions, and sometimes, even personal belongings of substantial value.

It’s crucial to remember that a financial settlement can have long-lasting implications on your financial health. Therefore, ensuring a fair and thorough agreement is essential. Financial settlements are not automatic during divorce; you must actively pursue this part of the divorce proceedings. Without a formal agreement, financial ties may remain in place, leaving you vulnerable to potential future claims from your ex-spouse. You should seek professional independent legal and financial advice as you navigate the agreement on how to divide your assets, to avoid any pitfalls commonly made such as tax liabilities.

The Role of Consent Orders

A consent order is a legally binding document that finalises the division of assets and financial responsibilities between you and your ex-spouse. Once you and your ex have reached an agreement on the financial settlement, a consent order is submitted to the court for approval. This document is critical as it prevents either party from making future financial claims against each other, providing closure and security for both parties. Once the consent order is sealed by the court your future security is protected and it would be very difficult for an ex-spouse to challenge.

Without a consent order, you could potentially face financial claims from your ex-spouse in the future, even years after the divorce. For this reason, securing a consent order is a wise step to ensure that your financial settlement is legally recognised and protected.

Mediation: A Cost-Effective Solution

For many couples, mediation is a valuable tool in reaching a financial settlement. Mediation allows both parties to discuss and negotiate the terms of their divorce in a controlled environment, with the assistance of a neutral third party. It’s often more cost-effective than going through prolonged court battles and can help facilitate a less adversarial divorce process.

During mediation, you and your ex-spouse can discuss various financial aspects, including the division of assets, child support, child, and spousal maintenance, if applicable. Mediators are trained to guide conversations constructively, focusing on mutual understanding and compromise. Although mediation isn’t a substitute for legal advice, it can be a highly effective first step in reaching an amicable and fair agreement.

Feel free to get in touch with Fair Result if you are seeking a mediator or need help with drawing up your agreed financial consent order. You will need a specialist solicitor to draw up and submit your agreed consent order, even if you have used a mediator to assist with reaching the agreement. This is because mediators cannot complete the final act of having the order approved by the court.

Key Financial Aspects to Consider in Divorce

When going through the divorce proceedings, several financial considerations need your attention. Here’s a breakdown of some of the key areas:

  • Property: One of the most significant assets for many couples is their home. Deciding who gets to keep the property or whether it should be sold, and the proceeds divided can be challenging. The financial settlement will outline how the property is handled and whether the home is split equally or otherwise, including whether one party should remain in the property until the children reach a certain age.
  • Pensions and Retirement Funds: Pensions are often overlooked during the divorce process, but they can be one of the most valuable assets to consider. In the UK, pensions can be divided through pension sharing orders or earmarking orders or offsetting the value of one person’s share in the pension against their value in another asset – normally a house. Working with a financial advisor and solicitor can help you understand your options and make the best decision for your future.
  • Savings and Investments: Savings accounts, investments, and other assets acquired during the marriage are typically considered matrimonial assets and are subject to division. It’s essential to disclose all assets honestly to ensure a fair settlement.
  • Debts and Liabilities: Divorce doesn’t just mean dividing assets—it also includes dividing any joint debts. If you and your ex-spouse accumulated debt during your marriage, such as credit card debt, loans, or mortgages, these liabilities may be divided as part of the financial settlement. Make sure to discuss how these debts will be managed to prevent financial complications in the future. This is also especially important if there is a business owned by either or both parties to the divorce.
  • Child Support and Maintenance: If you have children, child maintenance payments may be required to support their upbringing. The amount is typically determined based on the income of the non-residential parent. It’s vital to include child maintenance in your financial settlement to ensure that your children’s needs are adequately addressed. This can either be done using the child maintenance service calculator which simply divides income against the number of nights each parent has the child or alternatively you could agree voluntarily an agreed amount each week/month.
  • Spousal Support: In some cases, one spouse may be entitled to receive spousal support, especially if they have lower earning potential or sacrificed career opportunities during the marriage. The financial settlement will outline the terms of spousal support, including the amount and duration. It is important to remember though now the aim of the court is not to give spousal maintenance for life – it is just for a period of time for a spouse to return to independent living.

Navigating the Divorce Process: Seeking Expert Help

Understanding the intricacies of financial settlements and consent orders can be overwhelming. This is where professional guidance comes into play. A skilled divorce solicitor can help you navigate the legal landscape, ensuring that your rights are protected and that you achieve a fair outcome.

Working with experts not only provides peace of mind but also helps you avoid costly mistakes that could impact your financial future. Divorce is more than just a legal process—it’s a time of transformation and taking proactive steps to protect your financial wellbeing is essential.

The Importance of Taking Early Action

The earlier you begin preparing for your financial settlement, the better positioned you will be to protect your assets and secure your financial future. It’s easy to become overwhelmed by the emotional aspects of divorce but ignoring the financial side can lead to lasting repercussions. Start gathering financial documents, organising assets, and assessing your individual financial needs as soon as possible.

With a solid plan in place, you can approach the divorce process from a position of confidence. Whether you pursue mediation, seek a consent order, or simply work through the financial aspects with a solicitor, taking these steps early on can make a world of difference.

Final Thoughts: Protect Your Financial Future

Divorce is one of life’s most challenging transitions, but with the right preparation and support, you can secure a stable financial future. Remember, reaching a fair financial settlement and obtaining a consent order can provide the legal protection you need to move forward without the fear of future financial claims.

If you’re considering divorce or are already going through divorce proceedings, don’t wait to get expert guidance. Fair Result offers a unique, fixed-fee divorce service, covering all aspects of divorce, including court time, barrister fees, valuations, and everything required to achieve a fair and equitable outcome. Let us help you navigate this journey with confidence.

Ready to take control of your financial future during divorce?

Get in touch with Fair Result today to discuss your options and learn how we can support you:

Call: 07500933818 or 0333 577 7009

Email: peter@fair-result.co.uk or chris@fair-result.co.uk

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About Peter Marples

Peter Marples – Director of Fair Result and qualified accountant, with the determination to change the way divorce is transacted. For further advice on financial settlements and navigating divorce, use the contact details below:

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Top Tips To Consider When Preparing For Divorce
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Top Tips To Consider When Preparing For Divorce

Emma Davies
Emma Davies
Partner
Nelsons Law

Going through a divorce is a stressful time that can cause conflict between both parties. Specialist family lawyer and qualified collaborative practitioner Emma Davies shares her top tips with us to ensure as smooth a transition as possible into the next chapter of your life.

Understand your financial situation

One of the important things you will need to consider is the distribution of financial assets. Estimating the value of the marital pot will help give you an idea of what you may be entitled to as the Court’s starting point is equal sharing of matrimonial assets.  Giving consideration to your housing needs and what you would need to purchase your own property taking account of your mortgage capacity is a helpful starting point as the Court has the discretion to depart from equality depending on the needs of the parties and their dependent children.  We’d always recommend keeping a budget of your income and expenses as this will help in determining whether you would be entitled to spousal maintenance and, if so, the appropriate amount.

Collate the paperwork

Gathering together all of the relevant financial documentation is at an early date will save a lot of time moving forward and vastly aid in your preparation. Some of the documents you need to ensure you have are:

  • All bank and building society account statements for the last 12 months;
  • Up to date credit card statements;
  • Redemption statements for loans;
  • Details and documentary evidence of investments;
  • Cash Equivalent Transfer Values for pensions
  • Mortgage redemption statements; and,
  • Property Title information.

You will also need your most recent P60 and payslips if you’re employed, or two years of accounts if you’re self-employed.

Look to the future

It can be very easy to get bogged down in the present and focus only on the current proceedings. However, it’s important to consider if it is possible to become financially independent from your spouse after your divorce and whether it is possible to undertake further training or a change of job to improve your position. While the Court can make an order providing you with spousal maintenance if you cannot meet your income needs,  it will work towards the financial independence of both parties and achieving a clean break focussing on what both parties earning capacity is.

Entitlement to child maintenance is,  in most cases, determined by the Child Maintenance Service.  The online child maintenance calculator on the gov.uk website serves as a useful starting point to ascertain the appropriate amount that should be paid by the non-resident parent.

Document your valuables

Keep a full record of possessions with photographs if possible – this includes the contents of your house, vehicles, jewellery etc.–  if anything goes missing, this provides proof of its existence. Try and agree an amicable division of these chattels as often, the legal cost in doing so are disproportionate to the value of those items.

Don’t act in haste

It can be tempting to make quick decisions such as moving out of the marital home., Take legal advice before making any decisions of this magnitude. Once such decisions are made, going back on that choice can often be far more difficult and could also have an adverse effect on your case.

Seek expert advice

The most important thing to do before starting a divorce is to seek legal advice. Having a solicitor put a strategy in place to help you navigate your way through proceedings will drastically ease stress during what we know can be an overwhelming and emotive time. Solicitors can give you a good indication of where you stand and how divorce will affect you financially. Every case is different, and it’s important you seek advice tailored to your specific circumstances.

About Emma Davies

Emma is a partner and head the family law team at Nelsons. She qualified as a Solicitor in 2008 and has been at Nelsons since 2009.
Emma advises on divorce and financial settlements which involve complex issues and substantial assets. She also advises on pre and post nuptial agreements and separation agreements along with private law Children Act disputes. Emma is a qualified collaborative practitioner.
Emma’s areas of expertise include divorce, civil partnership dissolution, financial provision, collaborative law, pre-nuptial agreements, post-nuptial agreements, separation agreements, parental responsibility, child arrangements, and prohibited steps orders and specific issue orders.
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