Reiki Practitioner
Hi, I am Natasha and I am a single Mum of two beautiful hearted children. I am a positive thinker, a divorce mentor and Reiki Practitioner. I have of course been a Wife, as well as a company director and high-end overseas sales/marketing exec, I have worked with critically ill people. I am an explorer, traveller and adventurer.
I also write a blog called Divorce Goddess
Below is Natasha’s response
Dear Anne-Marie
Thank you for your comment and your thoughts on the proposed change of law.
I believe the laws surrounding marriage in this country need to be looked at to take into account the very many changing aspects of the modern day marriage. The issue of a blameless divorce is not about making it easier for people to behave as they want – for many they will behave as they wish irrespective of this proposed change, but simply for those who have fallen out of love to not be punished for this.
I hope you are able to find a way that is best for you through this distressing time.
Warm wishes
Natasha
I am incensed that you are advocating blame free divorce when there are much more important issues:
My marriage has broken down because my 50 year old husband of 26 years who I have known since my first three weeks at university has decided he is gay.
In order to get a financial settlement it seems that I have to divorce him. Firstly I do not believe in divorce and secondly I do not want to leave him free to marry his 25 year old boyfriend (our children are 23 and 21) without having to think about it and take time over it – not simply responding to the romance of the ‘honeymoon period’.
If I do divorce him, because he is gay, his infidelity does not count as adultery! Why is that gays can marry, but cannot commit adultery?
The law is an ass – but there are more important things to address than encouraging family breakdown with blameless divorce!